The Shame/Power Balance Revealed
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Many of us have learned that more shame and self-punishment is what is required to create more power/motivation to change our habits. The truth is, less shame helps us to access even more power/motivation to change our habits. Why do we do this? How do we start picking up on our unconscious patterns? How do we make it easier to access more of your already-existing power to change your habits sustainably. In a way that lasts. Also, Danny vs. A.I.. Danny shares a secret about his new book release, what it took to make it, and something surprising he learned about the advice A.I. has for quitting a porn habit for good. Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free. Check out Danny's Instagram here: @dannypoelmancoaching Ready to work with Danny? Schedule a free consultation here: Work With Me Website: https://www.dannypoelman.com 
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