49. What Kind of Self-Talk Actually Helps You to Reach Your Goals?
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To experience more love, freedom, and empowerment, listen to this episode. If you are not into those things (love/freedom/empowerment), tune out now. This episode is not for you. Reminder: Steer clear of teachers who say they know better for you than you and who foster a continual dependence on them to know what’s best for you. We are talking real client examples today. What kind of self-talk actually helps you to reach your goals? What to do when people around you talk to you in unhelpful ways for you to reach your goals (including 3 specific strategies). You deserve to be spoken to, by yourself and others, in a way that starts from a place of worthiness, love, empowerment, belief. Start speaking to yourself the way you deserve NOW. And give yourself grace as you practice, of course. You are WORTH IT. Questions to answer for yourself: -What kind of self-talk is getting in the way of you learning to do life porn-free? (Watch out for shame-producing thoughts)-What kind of self-talk actually helps you to learn, progress, and grow?-Which people that you are around, make it easier to have the self-talk you want to have with yourself after being around them?-Which people make it harder? (Even if you’d least expect it, blind spots) Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free. Check out Danny's Instagram here: @dannypoelmancoaching Ready to work with Danny? Schedule a free consultation here: Work With Me Website: https://www.dannypoelman.com
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