“ You can only change you” stuff don’t work
So, I have a question, could you explain the reasons with people that are narcissistic and emotionally abusive why the other spouse changing themselves doesn’t make or encourage the abusing/narcissistic spouse want to change? There doesn’t seem to be many people talking about it. I’ve been there done that, tried it all, and my spouse continued to just be emotionally lazy, toxic, pass the blame, make excuses, continued draining me emotionally, and frankly be turned off by me completely unless he was treated with utter grace no matter how awful he acted, treated me, or how he messed up the money, I wasn’t allowed to get upset because it triggered him. Basically, I couldn’t be any sort of normal in my opinion.
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