Is asking someone to ‘bring a plate to your house’ problematic? Or just practical? Plus, how many of you start your day with a to do list? Because according to one woman, the best thing you can do for your productivity is throw it out immediately. And, seven Chinese women have built their dream house together and decided they'll all retire there. Is growing old with your best mates the 21st century dream? We're asking the big questions on Mamamia Out Loud today.... Subscribe to Mamamia Out Loud here: https://omny.fm/shows/mamamia-out-loud/playlists/podcast  RECOMMENDATIONS Jessie: Watching Humanity on Netflix  Mia: Sarah's Channel on Youtube  Holly:  Watching When They See Us on Netflix END BITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright. Producers: Elissa Ratliff  COME TALK TO US Join the Out Louders Facebook group GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at [email protected] Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. COME AND SEE US LIVE - FIND TICKETS HERE. Melbourne - Malthouse Theatre Thursday 25th July Hobart - Theatre Royal Wednesday 31st July Brisbane - Brisbane Powerhouse Thursday 8th August Perth - Heath Ledger Theatre (State Theatre Centre) Thursday 22nd August Darwin - Studio Theatre (Darwin Entertainment Centre) Thursday 29th August Adelaide - Norwood Concert Hall Wednesday 4th September Cairns - Tanks Arts Centre Wednesday 25th September Orange - Orange Civic Theatre Wednesday 16th October Geelong - GPAC Wednesday 30th October Sydney - Seymour Centre Friday 1st November