In this episode NTS crew discusses how the "extra curriculars" helped or didn’t help daters in their shidduch journey. Growing up in the Jewish community, we are raised young to commit to duty, family and community. The propensity for young jewish people to be involved in the jewish community is ramped. There are hundreds of organizations that we get involved in. Looking back did it help? Was it worth it? We discuss. Jared and Yosef join us! 1) Let's discuss the organizations we spent time in 2) Does everyone do it to find a shidduch!! 3) Was it real or was it a resume filler? 4) Some looking back nostalgia on these programs 5) Being branded as an "NCSY" guy or a "Chabad" gal 6) How can one move on if these choices don’t work out? (Example the forever Camp Counselor) 7) How to move on if there was a serious issue in this stage of your life 1) Chesed programs 2) NCSY 3) Chabad 4) Shabbatons 5) Bais Medresh 6) Yeshiva learning 7) Camp! 8) Israel program 9) Tomchei Shabbos 10) HASC Counselor 11) Chai Lifeline 12) Seforim sale 13) YU / Landers --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shidduchim/support