-What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?    Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.    KEY POINT: "Doesn't Expect to be Rescued by Others and Refrains from Taking Over for Others."  Number 5 of 7 part series  Jerry Wise Life and Relationship Coach explains what it means to be rescued by others and taking over for others.  Using Bowen Family Systems Theory he describes the sharing of Self with...

-What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.     KEY POINT: "Stays in Contact with Those Who are Upset"  Number 4 of the 7 Part Series  Staying in contact means we do not retreat nor do we attack or become reactive in relationships in which others are upset or are upset with us.     Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7...

-What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.   KEY POINT: "Improves themselves without blaming others". This is Number 3 in the Seven Part Series Focusing on ourselves and how we function in the troubled relationships.  Blaming keeps the focus on others and will keep us stuck. Jerry offers helps to resist SELF-blame and OTHER-blame.   Jerry Wise is presenting a...

-What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.   KEY POINT: "Staying on Task Even When Experiencing Discomfort" Number 2 of the Seven Part Series Identifying and resolving systems feelings can get our true feelings in line with our values.   Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by...

-What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.   KEY POINT: Identifying and resolving systems feelings can get our true feelings in line with our values.   Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, Growing Yourself Up.  He explains each one.   To work with Jerry Wise...

Self differentiation expert Jerry Wise explains how over-seriousness is a way to maintain enmeshment and emotional fusion.  To break free we need more playfulness, more flexibility in our emotional responses, and less over-seriousness.   When others make things heavier, we must make things lighter.  The world will thank us for this.  (The exception when there is a grief or loss or tragedy), most things people get over-serious about are over nothing or small things.  For more help contact...

Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC is an international relationship coach and self-differentiation specialist and teaches family systems approach to healing and recovery.  In this video Jerry presents a family systems perspective of relationship problems.  Problems are symptoms of deeper problems.  Often we use the same thinking that got us into the problem.  Jerry Wise offers the viewer a way to think 'outside the box' and zoom out to see the deeper sources of our problems.   Listen to his podcasts on...

Jerry Wise, MA, MS is a relationship expert, self-specialist, life coach. He as been helping people for 37 years. He was a marriage and family therapist, pastoral  counselor, pastor, speaker, and trainer. Contact Jerry Wise at 317-919-6264 | [email protected] | jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com Jerry Wise works with clients one-on-one, couples, families, leaders, therapists. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app ---...

Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a self expert for 40 years.  He offers 12 steps to allowing other people to grow up.  Over-functioning is a serious problem along with Codependency resulting in supporting the immaturity of others.  Jerry Wise stresses the importance of allowing others to grow up we have to get out of their way.  This builds self-differentiation as well as maturely placing the responsibility on others to grow themselves up.  To work with Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC, Self Expert...

Jerry Wise, Relationship Expert, Life Coach - In dysfunctional families ENMESHMENT or over-closeness is a overabundance of a good thing.  Just like cancer it is an overgrowth of togetherness and closeness.  This enmeshment process is very damaging, emotionally disabling, painful, and pervasive in the lives of those who suffer in enmeshed families.  Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC explains the problems faced by those who are still enmeshed in their family-of-origin and uses his 39+ years of experience...

Watch this video and you will understand the emotional system and it works in a much better way!  Systems feelings control so many people's lives.  These are not the true us or the true state of our feelings.  True feelings are pushed out or overwhelmed by these "systems feelings" which arise from our past and our current functioning in relationships.  Jerry Wise is a 40 year veteran of helping people to quiet and resolve these systems feelings.  As a self-differentiation/family systems...

So you think you are ready to stand up for yourself. This video helps you prepare for those self defining events with your family of origin, spouses and friends by Jerry Wise, Relationship Expert, Life Coach. Being assertive and standing up for yourself is a science. Jerry Wise explains the dynamics of the family systems concept of "declaring self" which is self assertiveness from a systems perspective. For more help contact Jerry T. Wise, MA, MS, CLC at  317-919-6264 | [email protected]...

Jerry Wise, MA, MS is a relationship expert, self-specialist, life and relationship coach. He as been helping people for 40+ years. He was a marriage and family therapist, pastoral  counselor, pastor, speaker, and trainer.  Contact him at [email protected] | 317-919-6264 | www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com   Jerry Wise works with clients one-on-one, couples, families, business leaders, and therapists. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a...

Jerry Wise has been an expert in helping ACOA/ACA's for 40 years.  Learn the 5 stages of recovery for ACOA's in this video.  For more personal help contact Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC at  [email protected] / 317-919-6264 / jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com Jerry Wise works with clients all over the world. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Loving an ACoA can be a challenge.  Relationships can be a real adventure.  This videos offers help, support and insight to those who are in a relationship with an ACA.    Self Differentiation Expert Jerry Wise uses his 40+ years of experience working with ACOA's to help couples and families achieve a greater sense of happiness and health in their lives.  Contact me at Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC at    [email protected] / 317-919-6264 / jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com For in office or Skype...

Self Differentiation Expert Jerry Wise helps ACA's deal with the struggle for intimacy.  Jerry has been helping people for 40 years with ACOA, Codependency, and adult children of narcissists issues.  ACOA's ask many questions about achieving intimacy and healthy relationships.  This videos will help ACOA's and spouses of those who love them.   Contact Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC at  [email protected]  or 317-919-6264 to work with Jerry Wise. jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com --- This...

Growing up in an alcoholic (or narcissistic) home or drug addicted home created traumas for the child growing up in this addicted home resulting in post traumatic disorder symptoms. This chronic recurring trauma experienced as a child is carried into adulthood and into our relationships. Healing and recovery is essential for the ACOA. Jerry Wise, MA, MS has been working with ACOA's for 37 years. Often ACA's minimize the impact of the alcoholic caregiver or, parent on them as adults, but the...

What does ACOA/ACA recovery entail?   Self Differentiation Expert Jerry Wise shares his 39+ years of experience working with ACOA individuals and couples.  His 5th key is often the most overlooked and the one least engaged in.  You can set up an appointment with Jerry Wise at  [email protected] / 317-919-6264 /  www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com    He works with his clients via Skype, Facetime, Google Hangouts.  Check out exclusive content on his Facebook page  at Jerry Wise...

Jerry Wise has been a relationship expert for 40 years.  He is an expert in his work with Adult Children of Alcoholics.  He defines health for ACOA's as working and achieving self differentiation.  To work with Jerry contact him at  [email protected] / 317-919-6264 (USA) /  www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com  If your life doesn't work and you are an adult child of alcoholics or other dysfunctions get help now for a happier life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The...

Jerry Wise, MA, MS is a relationship expert, self-specialist, life coach. He as been helping people for 37 years. He was a marriage and family therapist, pastoral  counselor, pastor, speaker, and trainer.  Contact him at  [email protected] / 317-919-6264 / www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com   Jerry Wise works with clients one-on-one, couples, families, leaders, therapists. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app