Is Brad back on Naked Attraction?! Either way, he’s not here this week, but the speculation of his reality TV escapades has led to a new obsession for Chris. Are hobbies a thing for adults? Matty's not sure he has one, but he might have an idea to change that, and it involves the Cha Cha. Chris' body is breaking down - how exactly do you get rid of a stye?! And there's a beautifully heartbreaking obituary the boys discuss from someone finally able to be who they truly are. See...

 The weather's getting cooler so the boys crack open a bottle of red this week for their weekly catch up.Chris has found a local Tom Daly sponsorship that might not technically be above board.Brad delivers one of his best segues to date in order to delve into our gay awakenings.And Matty got his new driver's licence back - what do the boys think of his photo?! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Brad's back and the boys grill him on whether he did, in fact, film a reality TV show. Matty wants to surprise Ryan, who despises surprises, so tries to figure out the best way of doing it. Chris has been researching the story from a few months back about the anticipated mass coming out in the world of European football, and he has an update. Plus the boys either want to be Troye Sivan or they want to be with Troye Sivan - we're not entirely sure. Either way, there's a lot of Troye Sivan...

Brad's away this week and the boys think he might be filming a reality TV show in secret. Chris has drunk the Kool Aid and has well and truly been sucked into something big. Matty had to get a new driver's licence and the photo process took a turn. Plus they both discuss the new porn passport those across the ditch will need in order to access R18 material online, and reminisce on the days of dial up internet. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys have a new catch cry they're hoping will take off like the chair emoji. Matty wonders what the protocol is at the urinal. Chris sets us up for future failure by suggesting a viewing party for next year's Eurovision. And Brad cheated yet again - this time with a doctor! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys are taking a walk down memory lane with some Now That’s What I Call Music nostalgia. Despite this being an audio medium, Chris is eager to teach the boys some sign language. You'd best believe us all being in committed relationships won't stop Brad talking about the new Bumble feature. And WAIT til you hear Matty's update on the outrageous place to cruise these days...allegedly.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys actually followed through on something and brought in a Soda Stream to see if you can turn still wine into sparkling. Matty's Mum almost found something in the washing basket at his house. Chris and his partner are potentially crossing the threshold into sibling territory. And Brad's up with the youths now that he's attended a 21st. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys are back and reminiscing about former lovers. Brad admits to the boys he's cheated - but at least his lid looks good. Matty laments being the old man at a house party, and is concerned he might've stolen some Ferrero Rochers. And Chris realised we missed a crucial day in the annual calendar, but it might not be too late to celebrate. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the boys find out where you're listening from. Matty has a proposal dilemma from a Gaytor. Chris has fallen deep into some algorithm rabbit roles. And Brad brings us up to speed with the rainbow crossing culprit's sentencing. Follow us: MATTY, CHRIS & BRAD (@outthegayte) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week we have a NZ superstar crash the poddy mid-episode. Pockets tells us if Baby Talk is working in the bedroom. Chris has our new stats and we've gone international, baby! Plus Brad gives us the full lowdown from the Rainbow Games - and spoiler, we had a bowling blowout. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Chris is away sick so Brad's partner Karl joined the boys to soft-launch the long promised WAGs episode. The boys have some things to say about the rainbow crossing debacle. Brad has to give a speech to hundreds of people and is rightfully shitting himself. And Matty accidentally suggested a threesome to a new friend. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Chris brings news from the regions, and the boys ponder whether you can be hotter in different parts of the country. Brad gets misty-eyed reminiscing about NZDating.com. And Matty's been ripped out for still rocking skinny jeans. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  The boys go off on a wild tangent about Chris Hemsworth’s junk…mail.   Matty has a pep in his step after an interaction with a Gaytor.   Brad’s ready to pull out the dressing gown now that the weather’s cooling down.   And Chris has rounded up the best stories about your falls. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Matty got a package in the mail, and gives his review to the boys, Boomer Brad's had a fall and Chris recounts his gay awakening that just had its 25th anniversary. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys are back for 2024! This week we recap our summers (is it too late to say happy new year?), Brad has had a major poomergency, Matty’s new life has given him full rizz and Chris is nervous that not being shocked by Saltburn has made him immune to filth. So excited to be back in your ear holes xxx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Right! Turn this up nice and loud in front of the rellies on Christmas Day! We hope you all have a wonderful day - thank you for all your support this year. Stay safe and see you in 2024 xxx  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We've rolled into the last episode (well almost last) of the year and nothing says Merry Gaymas like a scandal in the Senate. We have truly loved having your earholes this year, thank you for being the most wonderful Gayters xxx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have Brad and Matty finally reached boiling point? A new celeb is on OnlyFans - but as we've learnt, the subscription fee probably won't be worth it... Are their unwritten rules about what you should watch on a plane? And Christmas ornaments  - we warn you of the dangers of using them, um, not on a Christmas tree. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Facebook community groups really expose allllll the neighbourly behaviour right? Have you heard about the cat killer? Brad tries to get his head around the teen slang words of 2023 and please bear with us. Plus, Chris with an absolute CLANGER of an airport security story. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Despite putting NOTHING in the Google Doc this week, Brad kicks us off with an absolute yarn about his snoring. Pockets fills us in on his new job, and what he's promised his husband next year. Chris has an update on our groundwork to bring back the sexy fireman calendar. Plus, one of our Mums has been listening to the poddy, and has some thoughts. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We can absolutely guarantee you that no matter what we talked about today, it went to places not suitable for anywhere. That means, get the kids out of the car, don't play it at work, just keep it away from everyone. NOTHING IS SAFE!!! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We help Brad through his feelings after Sunday's Rugby World Cup loss - and yes, it involves a rousing Kumbaya rendition. We remember Matthew Perry after the sad news of his passing this week. Chris tells us a truly wild story about someone meeting their partner's parents. Matty explains why those trees in your street smell like jizz. And what would we be arrested for?! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The boys are back after last week's record fail - we should never be left to our own devices. Halloween's just around the corner, but Brad's not sure. It's also almost time for Christmas! How do we feel about THAT?! Chris and Brad thirst over Troye Sivan. And Matty ponders whether the grass is always actually greener. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We learn the Eiffel Tower has a different meaning... The President of the United States has family members who aren't afraid to well, show their members... Matty nearly burnt down a house with cheese and Chris shat himself at Movie World. Thanks for coming! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.