This episode tackles a subscribers dilemma. She loves her boyfriend and they both want kids, but there's a hitch. He's happy with things as they are, while her dream includes a trip down the aisle before starting a family. Her faith also plays a role, making having kids out of wedlock a non-starter. Feeling the pressure of time, she has wondered if egg freezing is the way to go. Can she have both love and a family on her own terms? Join us for an informative discussion about navigating this...

This episode tackles deal breakers - the relationship roadblocks that can halt things in their tracks. We'll dish on our own non-negotiables and explore common ones like communication issues or differing values. Is there wiggle room, or are some things instant dealbreakers?

This episode tackles self-image and body dysmorphia. We explore how childhood shapes how we see ourselves, examine generational weight struggles, and offer advice to avoid passing them on. Join us for a raw discussion on challenging negative self-perception and building body acceptance. 🌐 Explore More: Website: nickybamgbade.com TikTok: @nickybamgbade Instagram: @nickybamgbade @davidbamibade 👂 Let's Connect - Share Your Stories: [email protected]

In this episode, Nicky and David discuss identity! They explore how easy it is to get caught up in what others expect or what we see online. They break down the pressure to fit in and the anxieties of comparison that can cloud our sense of self. 🌐 Explore More: Website: nickybamgbade.com TikTok: @nickybamgbade Instagram: @shipsinakitchen 👂 Let's Connect - Share Your Stories: [email protected]

This episode dives into the eye-watering cost of weddings. We explore the pressure of traditional ceremonies, the hidden costs that can snowball, and how couples are getting into serious debt for a single day. Is the dream wedding worth the financial hangover? We explore alternative options and budgeting tips to help you say "I do" without saying goodbye to your future savings. 🌐 Explore More: Website: nickybamgbade.com TikTok: @nickybamgbade Instagram: @shipsinakitchen 👂 Let's Connect -...

This episode offers advice for couples looking to recapture the spark in their relationship. It explores tips and tricks to help couples reignite the flame and feel closer again. 🌐 Explore More: Website: nickybamgbade.com TikTok: @nickybamgbade Instagram: @shipsinakitchen 👂 Let's Connect - Share Your Stories: [email protected]

Do you sometimes feel like the UK has a secret handshake for keeping success down? That's Tall Poppy Syndrome in action! In this episode, we dig into this cultural quirk and explore why some Brits feel threatened by those who shine. We'll discuss: What is Tall Poppy Syndrome and how does it manifest in the UK? From celebrities to colleagues, is anyone safe? Why does celebrating success seem "un-British"? Are there ways to overcome Tall Poppy Syndrome and thrive anyway? 🌐 Explore...

Ever wonder why we sometimes sabotage ourselves or act impulsively? Our egos can play a big role! This episode dives deep into how our upbringing can shape our ego. Nicky & David also explore the sensitive topic of childhood abuse and its lasting impact on how we view ourselves and the world. Trigger Warning: This episode discusses childhood abuse and trauma. Listener discretion is advised. Join us as we explore: How our past shapes our ego The link between ego and...

In this episode of Ships in a Kitchen, Nicky and David tackle the often-overlooked challenge of seeking help. We all know the saying "just suck it up," but why do so many of us struggle to ask for support, even from loved ones? Nicky and David dive deep into the reasons why reaching out can feel difficult. They explore the societal pressures that can make seeking help seem like a sign of weakness, along with the fear of burdening others or losing control. They also discuss specific...

This week, Nicky and David dive into the fascinating world of quirks, those unique personality traits that colour our lives. They explore how these quirks show up in children, particularly those with autism and ADHD. The conversation then takes a turn towards adult relationships, where quirks can sometimes cause friction and misunderstandings. Nicky and David offer insight on their own journey and how they navigated these situations, resulting in better communication and stronger...

In this latest episode, Nicky & David delve into the nuances of privacy within relationships. Join them as they discuss sharing phone passcodes, open relationships, and the delicate balance between trust and transparency. From trust issues to personal boundaries, they explore why some couples struggle with privacy and the impact it has on their relationship dynamics. 🌐 Explore More: Website: nickybamgbade.com TikTok: @nickybamgbade Instagram: @shipsinakitchen 👂 Let's Connect - Share...

In this week's episode, we dive into the transformative realm of habits—both good and bad—and how they shape our journey towards a brighter future. Nicky and David explore the profound impact of consistent habits on personal growth, offering insights into the key to building a life of purpose and fulfilment. 🌐 Explore More: Website: nickybamgbade.com TikTok: @shipsinakitchen Instagram: @shipsinakitchen 👂 Let's Connect - Share Your Stories: [email protected] #marriageadvice...

In this week's episode, we dive deep into the crucial yet often challenging aspect of healthy communication within marriages. Nicky and David share candid insights into the hurdles they faced in the early stages of their own marriages due to poor communication, and how they are learning to overcome these obstacles. Join the conversation as they explore the profound impact that communication dynamics can have on relationships and, in turn, on children. From misunderstandings to conflicts,...

In the latest episode, Nicky and David embark on a reflective journey through their past experiences, uncovering valuable insights from the rearview mirror. They delve into the depths of their regrets, exploring pivotal moments where different choices could have altered the course of their lives. 🌐 Explore More: Website: nickybamgbade.com TikTok: @nickybamgbade Instagram: @nickybamgbade @davidbamibade 👂 Let's Connect - Share Your Stories: [email protected] #marriageadvice...

In the latest episode, "Bring Your Half," Nicky and David delve into the complexities of marital expectations, where the concept of equal financial contributions can inadvertently become a source of pressure and strain. They candidly explore the real-world impact when one spouse expects the other to pay half of all bills and expenses, irrespective of significant income disparities. Join the conversation as they unravel the silent struggles faced by individuals striving to meet these...

In their latest episode, Nicky and David explore the impact of friendships within relationships, delving into the complexities around this. They dive into the often debated topic of maintaining close friendships with the opposite sex, uncovering the nuances affecting relationship dynamics. Addressing societal constructs, they challenge conventional narratives around “trophy wives” and “sugar daddies”, presenting a down-to-earth perspective that goes beyond societal expectations. Nicky and...

In their latest episode, Nicky and David tackle a thought-provoking subject: the intricate dynamics of expectations and comparison in relationships. They delve into the topic of income expectations, shedding light on the impact on self-confidence for both men and women. Nicky and David share candid insights on societal norms and the pressures surrounding financial contributions within relationships. Navigating further into the realm of relationship expectations, they explore the delicate...

In their latest episode, Nicky and David dive into the transformative power of vulnerability and open communication in relationships. They explore the significance of sharing past traumas, feelings, strengths, and weaknesses with your partner, unraveling the layers of healing it can bring. Whether you're navigating the single life or committed to a partnership, Nicky and David offer actionable insights on: * 🔄 Identifying and Acknowledging: Recognising areas where past traumas or choices...

In their latest episode, Nicky and David tackle a fundamental topic: the importance of integrity.Nicky openly reflects on navigating challenges with honesty in her younger years, while David shares his experience overcoming integrity hurdles in his professional life. They demonstrate that building a life of integrity transcends relationships and resonates with everyone, regardless of relationship status.Whether you're single or partnered, Nicky and David offer actionable insights on: *...

Join David and his Nicky in a honest discussion about the impact of shame on their marriage. From tough topics like smacking children to personal struggles, they share the unfiltered journey of dealing with past experiences. This episode is all about breaking free from shame's grip, offering insights and lessons learned. 🗝️💑 This is a candid conversation on confronting the challenges of shame in a relationship. Share your thoughts in the comments below 🌐 Explore More: Website:...

Join David and Nicky in this candid conversation where they unravel the reality of marriage. Stripping away the filters, they delve into the challenges, arguments, and the delicate art of holding back. No sugarcoating here – just genuine talk about the highs and lows of their journey. Bid farewell to the Instagram highlights as they share the unfiltered moments, because let's be real, marriage is a rollercoaster of emotions.