Episodes
In this conversation, 12Kyle and Baylor discuss the key elements of a successful marriage. They touch on the importance of communication, having aligned values, and actively nurturing physical attraction. They emphasize the need for compromise, teamwork, and the ability to adapt to changing circumstances. They also acknowledge the challenges of marriage and advise those considering marriage to have a plan and be prepared for the hard work it requires. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and...
Published 04/28/24
In this episode, 12Kyle interviews his son Deion about his experience at Alabama A&M University. Deion shares why he chose Alabama A&M, his journey in the band, his social life on campus, and his decision to pursue his master's degree without taking a break. He highlights the diverse and welcoming community at Alabama A&M and the support he received from faculty and staff.  The episode concludes with a discussion about the motto of Alabama A&M, 'Start here, go anywhere,' and...
Published 04/25/24
Published 04/25/24
In this episode, 12Kyle and Shon Hyneman discuss the regrets that some men have after going through a divorce. In this conversation, 12Kyle and Shon discuss the top 10 regrets that men have in marriage. They cover topics such as not prioritizing their spouse, not setting boundaries with in-laws, neglecting self-care, comparing their marriage to others, overspending, using alcohol as a coping mechanism, resisting therapy, and not reprioritizing their life after marriage. The conversation...
Published 04/21/24
In this episode, 12Kyle reflects on the 30th anniversary of NaS' debut album, Illmatic. He discusses the impact of the album, his personal connection to it, and the themes of struggle, hunger, and storytelling that resonate throughout. 12Kyle emphasizes the timeless quality of Illmatic and its ability to transport listeners back to a specific time and place. He also shares a special moment he had with his son, Deion, at a NaS concert, where they both rapped along to the album. Overall,...
Published 04/19/24
In this episode, 12Kyle explores the question of whether social media is bad for our health. He discusses the rise of social media platforms and their impact on our lives. 12Kyle also examines the views of New York City Mayor Eric Adams, who declared social media a public health hazard. The age at which children should start using social media is debated, and 12Kyle shares his own experiences with his children. The amount of time spent on social media each week is discussed, as well as the...
Published 04/18/24
On this bonus edition of the 12Kyle Podcast, 12Kyle tells the story of two historical events in football: the Miracle at the Meadowlands and the tradition of the Gatorade bath.  The Miracle at the Meadowlands refers to a game in 1978 where the New York Giants lost to the Philadelphia Eagles due to a fumble on the last play of the game. This event led to the creation of the "Victory Formation" in football. The Gatorade bath tradition started in 1984 when a player on the Giants, Jim Burt,...
Published 04/14/24
In this episode, 12Kyle reflects on the impact of COVID-19 and the global pandemic, acknowledging the personal losses and the ways in which it affected individuals mentally, physically, and psychologically. The conversation explores the transition to remote work and the adjustments made in various aspects of life, including entertainment and virtual events. The lack of leadership and conflicting information from authorities is discussed, along with the debates surrounding masks and...
Published 04/11/24
In this episode, 12Kyle and King Jerm discuss the intertwining of sports and gambling, focusing on the NFL ,MLB, and NBA. They explore the NFL's relationship with Las Vegas and the increasing presence of sports betting in the league. They also discuss their personal experiences with gambling and the thrill of winning and losing. The conversation then shifts to the recent scandal involving Shohei Otani in Major League Baseball and the potential for games to be rigged in the NFL and NBA. In...
Published 04/07/24
In this episode, 12Kyle reminisces about historical events and shares where he was when they happened. He discusses events such as the Space Shuttle Challenger explosion, September 11th, the COVID-19 pandemic and many more in between. These events shaped his perspective on life and taught him to appreciate each moment. Chapters 00:00 - Space Shuttle Challenger Explosion 09:39 - Michael Jordan's First NBA Title 11:39 - The LA Riots 16:05 - The O.J. Simpson Chase 21:07 - September 11th,...
Published 04/04/24
In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the soundtrack to the movie 'Above the Rim' released 30 years ago. He highlights the significance of soundtracks and the popularity of black movie soundtracks in the 90s. He provides an overview of the movie and its star-studded cast, including Tupac Shakur. 12Kyle then delves into each track on the album, sharing his thoughts and memories associated with each song. He praises the producers and artists involved, particularly highlighting the standout tracks...
Published 03/31/24
In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the decline of customer service in the post-pandemic era. He shares personal examples of poor customer service, including incorrect orders and unhelpful phone representatives. He also explores the expectations and frustrations of tipping, as well as the impact of social media influencers on businesses. 12Kyle concludes by emphasizing the importance of treating every customer well and the power of the black dollar. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: The...
Published 03/28/24
In this bonus episode, 12Kyle shares a list of things he is not a fan of. From loud music and social media tags to gossipy men in sports and pictures of plates, he vents about the things that annoy him. He also expresses his dislike for bedwear in public, cats, long videos, loud exhaust pipes, and arguing the question. Despite his dislikes, 12Kyle encourages listeners to subscribe to the podcast and provide feedback. not a fan...
Published 03/24/24
In this episode, 12Kyle discusses Usher's album 'Confessions' 20 years after its release. He provides background information on the album and its significance in Usher's career. 12Kyle also explores the album's production, the personal backstory behind it, and its commercial success. He goes through the track listing and shares his thoughts on each song. Finally, 12Kyle reflects on the album's legacy and its impact on Usher's discography. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and...
Published 03/21/24
In this bonus episode, 12Kyle responds to his fellow podcaster, Baylor the Great, who issued a challenge to him. The challenge was for 12Kyle to do a podcast on the 10 hip hop songs that he "cruises" to.  12Kyle accepts the challenge and provides a backstory for each song.  Here's a link to Baylor's episode... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cruisin-down-the-street/id1272451586?i=1000648434255 AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/bKcOQJHoy2c
Published 03/17/24
In this episode, 12Kyle interviews Katrina Brown Bankins, an HBCU alum, about her experience at Hampton University. Katrina shares why she chose Hampton and how she felt at home on campus. She discusses her initial major in broadcast journalism and her eventual switch to speech pathology. Katrina reflects on her career choices and the moments of doubt she has had. She also highlights the nurturing environment and mentorship she received at Hampton. The episode emphasizes the importance of...
Published 03/14/24
In this bonus episode, 12Kyle discusses the topic of men telling lies to get women in bed. He came across an article that listed some of the most common lies men tell, and he shares his thoughts on each lie.  12Kyle emphasizes that while these lies may sometimes work, it is important to remember that a woman knows if she wants to sleep with a man long before any lies are told. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: Telling Lies 01:20 - Men Telling Lies to Get Women in Bed 04:16 - Lies About...
Published 03/10/24
In this episode, 12Kyle discusses imposter syndrome, a feeling of unworthiness or incompetence despite achieving accomplishments and success. He shares a conversation he had with his wife, Sherice, who expressed feeling like an imposter in her new position at work. 12Kyle emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's achievements and self-worth, and encourages listeners to celebrate their successes. He also explores the influence of upbringing and personal confidence in overcoming imposter...
Published 03/07/24
In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the concept of turbulence and how it relates to both air travel and life on the ground. He shares his personal experiences with turbulence and explores how to handle it in different situations. He emphasizes the importance of preparation, maintaining a positive mindset, and finding focus in chaotic times. 12Kyle also highlights the resilience and strength needed to survive turbulence and encourages listeners to view it as a temporary challenge. Overall, the...
Published 03/03/24
In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the topic of black man affection. He shares a humorous story about a debate over giving a Valentine's Day card to a 13-year-old boy. This leads to a conversation about the expression of affection in his own life, including the love shown by his father and uncles. He reflects on the importance of expressing love and affection to the next generation and the unique ways that black men connect with each other. Ultimately, 12Kyle emphasizes the need for black...
Published 02/29/24
In this conversation, 12Kyle and eclectik share their experiences and reflections on living in Atlanta and Washington DC, respectively. This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Chapters 00:00 Kickin It 12:20 - Enjoying Life and Friendship 25:39 - Expectations and Disappointments 26.32 - Chillin 28:00 - Scary Encounters 33:08 - Misunderstandings and Awkward Situations 36:18 - Overrated and Underrated Food Spots 39:25 - Favorite Restaurants and Bars 42:31 - Online Communities and Social...
Published 02/25/24
In this conversation, 12Kyle and eclectik share their experiences and reflections on their 20s while living in Atlanta and Washington DC, respectively. This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background 03:06 - Moving to Virginia 12:17 - Navigating the DC Area 17:17 - Nightlife in DC 20:51 - Living in Virginia 27:26 - Dating and Relationships 31:14 - Attending Weddings and Funerals 01:01:31 - Being Single and Content AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle
Published 02/22/24
In this podcast episode, 12Kyle reflects on the concept of success and how it evolves over time. He shares his own experiences and observations, discussing what success looked like for him at different stages of his life.  12Kyle emphasizes the importance of defining success for oneself and not letting society's standards dictate one's sense of achievement. He also highlights the role of relationships and personal growth in shaping one's perception of success. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction...
Published 02/18/24
In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the concept of doomscrolling, which refers to the excessive consumption of negative news and its adverse effects on mental health. He shares personal experiences of being consumed by COVID-related news during a trip to Los Angeles.  12Kyle emphasizes the need to be mindful of the information consumed on social media platforms and the impact of who we follow. He highlights the brain's tendency to process negative thoughts more intensely and the importance of...
Published 02/15/24
In this episode, 12Kyle plays a game called 'You Can Only Pick Five' where he has to choose five TV shows to watch for the rest of his life. He shares the list of 31 TV shows and discusses the ones that didn't make the cut. 12Kyle then reveals his top five TV shows. He provides personal insights and reasons for choosing each show. 12Kyle's choices are influenced by personal preferences, nostalgia, and the impact the shows had on his life. The discussion highlights the importance of...
Published 02/11/24