In this episode, John discusses the importance of taking ownership in relationships. He explains that someone who takes ownership is willing to accept responsibility for their actions and behaviors, rather than being defensive or blaming others. He shares personal experiences and client stories to illustrate how defensiveness can poison a relationship, and emphasizes that taking ownership is a key ingredient in resolving conflict and building trust. He ends with encouraging his listeners to reflect on their own defensiveness and patterns of behavior in arguments, and to consider the role of ownership in their relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices