Today’s episode is going to be a sensitive one and if you’re in a long-term relationship, whether or not you’re having issues with your sexual relations, this is going to be a great listen for you. Why does your sexual identity go away if you don’t feel your husband or long-term partner desiring you? Do not rely your self-worth solely on someone else, do the inner work, and do not wait for someone else to ignite your intimate, magnetic energy. Show notes: [1:22] Some basic info about me and my husband [3:39] What really bothered me when our sex life declined [6:04] Feeling shame [7:50] Something that Esther Perel said that stuck with me [10:10] Sharing an awkward and vulnerable topic [12:56] Developing a part in you, for you—the intimacy tank [15:57] The struggles of a long-term relationship Find and follow me at: @nytherapist Please help a new podcaster out by leaving a review and sharing this podcast with anyone you think can benefit from listening to The Imperfect Person podcast. Also, please subscribe so you’ll be notified when I drop a new episode.