On the show we're joined by New York Psychotherapist and Author Tonya Lester. Tonya has 16 years of experience as a Therapist and is also a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. What is psychotherapy? How does it work? Bel asks Tonya the questions you may have wanted to ask a therapist. What's the most common thing that happens when couples are in therapy? We discuss setting boundaries, break-ups, assessing if your relationship is healthy and taking good care of our mental health. We also talk about Tonya's upcoming book, Be Difficult: A Guide to Speaking Up, Facing Conflict and Changing Your Life. Find Tonya and @tonyalesterpsychotherapy Support The Self-Love Club Subscribe on your podcast appSelect automatic downloadsLeave us a 5 star rating and write us a kind reviewShare with your friendsFollow @selfloveclubpodcast and @belcrawford and @bel_crawford on TikTokJoin The Self-Love Club Private Group But wait! We've made more things for you Subscribe and listen to our podcast gloss our home of pop culture We have a two part deep dive series on Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen aka our millennial queens Follow @glossthepodcast Subscribe at plus.acast.com/s/the-self-love-club for exclusive bonus episodes, early access and extra content from Bel. https://plus.acast.com/s/the-self-love-club. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.