Episodes
This week on Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead discuss - The media coverage about Kate Midldleton, her cancer diagnosis, your right to privacy and boundaries, external pressures to share and toxicity in our relationships. -Why are people in Ireland some of the oldest in Ireland becoming first time parents? How do societal issues impact our relationships? -Why is it said that men should not move into a woman's home? -Conversations you should have before moving in together. -When is the...
Published 04/03/24
Published 04/03/24
Mairead and Stephanie discuss: What does International Women's Day mean to us? Mairead and Stephanie share their own personal and workplace experiences with women - positive and negative. How can women work against women and be an obstacle to each other? What kind of woman are you for other women - how do they feel in your company and when they leave your company?How do women support each other!Are there times that we expect too much of each other or too little?The toxicity of gossip and how...
Published 03/07/24
This week on the Tough Love podcast, we discuss Valentine's Day, giving and receiving gifts and the common problems that Valentine's Day can highlight in your relationship. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 02/12/24
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Published 12/21/23
In this episode of Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead discuss perfectionism, loneliness and mindset this christmas. www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 12/08/23
To celebrate singles day 2023, Stephanie and Mairead are discussing how to choose yourself, develop your romantic and personal side of your personality, cut out anything that does not serve the life that you want, consciously decide on the life that you want and so much more! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 11/10/23
In this the fourth episode in the series series on the healthy break Mairead and Stephanie discuss The pain suffering and grief of break up.All of the people that are involved in your break up in particular -children, new partners , family, your ex’s family. How to separate the emotion of the break up and to make good decisions.How to keep the future in view, despite the emotion of the break up.How to manage invitations.When to introduce new partners and when is it too soon?How about...
Published 10/17/23
This week on Tough Love podcast  Part 3 of 4 in our series covering couples in crisis from when to get relationship help, conversations and communications through to healing a healthy relationship or when to separate or divorce. The checklist of important conversations you should be prepared for to have a healthy separation and divorce. If you would like to book a private consultation with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 10/10/23
This week on Tough Love podcast  Part 2 of 4 in our series covering couples in crisis from when to get relationship help, conversations and communications through to healing a healthy relationship or when to separate or divorce. If you would like to book a private consultation with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 09/25/23
Welcome back to season 2 of Tough Love podcast! Thank you for everyone that has listened to series 1 and for all your lovely feedback. Part one of our four part series covering couples in crisis, when to get relationship help, conversations and communication, through to healing a healthy relationship or deciding on separation and divorce. If you would like to book a private session with Stephanie and Mairead visit www.toughlove.ie or iof you would like to get in contact with us email...
Published 09/14/23
This week on Tough Love podcast we are on holidays so we discuss a few mini topics that we have encountered recently -  We discuss -  Cheating and the real life statistics of cheating. Age gaps. What is holding you back? Your journey - what is happening in your life or relationship drawing you to this podcast and remembering to just keep going. Grå- gust (Using August to find love and direction in your life for the rest of the year!) Increase your friendships, new activities and your social...
Published 08/04/23
In this episode we look at Scrolling, influencers - where you're taking your advice and who you are allowing influence your thoughts and decisions.The imperative of idle time on holidays-how to let something new happen as you step away from routine.Phubbing-the damage it does the hurt it can cause and how to deal with that.Who’s paying for the holiday?Listener Questions My partner won’t talk about the future! My new boyfriend is very slow- not even a kiss yet! She’s always busy maybe she...
Published 08/02/23
Topics that Stephanie and I covered this week in the media on Newstalk, iradio and East Coast FM. New research stating 63.5% of Tinder users are either married or in a relationship. How our "Ask Stephanie and Mairead" consultations work - To book - www.toughlove.ie Red flags and green flags at the early stages of a relationship. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 07/24/23
When friends cannot celebrate your successes . How you lose friends when you couple up and why? Where love is anchored in your relationships? Types of friends! Respect your won boundaries, so others know where they are.  How people pleasing self defeats and lays pressure on the partner. The importance of someone leading more emotionally.  Practice saying NO and experience the power shift! How to nip it in the bud! Small toxic actions. The toxicity of criticism.  The part you play in the...
Published 07/13/23
This week on Tough Love podcast - How the housing crisis is affecting how we date, separations and relationships. -Oxytocin - fascinating facts about the love hormone. - How men and women date differently. -The difference in the perspective of men and women when going on a first date.    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 07/06/23
This week on Tough Love podcast we explore the highs, lows and pitfalls of holidays and relationships. - In the media, we briefly explore the importance of trust in relationships in light of the RTE pay dilemma. - Issues encountered on holidays for long term couples. - How to prepare for a first holiday in a new relationship. - If the holiday is destroyed , what to do. - Holidaying with family or friends as a couple. - When you or your other half are going on holidays without your other...
Published 06/29/23
Porn addiction, sex, alcohol and gambling. The addictive cycleThe additional unconscious factor that drives it .The irish cultural factorsThe negatives of heavy drinking and how we normalize it.Do you know the safe limits for drinking alcohol?When you need to take notice. What are the warning signs? The power of denial.The many excuses that we create to drink. How the addiction hides in excitement at the beginning of relationships. The imperative of dealing with facts v judgment or...
Published 06/22/23
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Published 06/16/23
In this episode Stephanie and Mairead discuss arguments. What couples argue about!How the style of argument is destructive or productive!What is your pattern!Why apologies and being able to accept an apology is important. How to argue in a healthy wayThe toxicity of insultsHow to repair after an argument.How to let it go, forgive and move on.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 06/08/23
On this episode of Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead discuss the 10 hardest things for their clients to hear. If you would like to book a private session with Stephanie and Mairead visit www.lovehq.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 05/25/23
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Published 04/07/23
In this podcast Stephanie and Mairead discuss Characteristics that are commonly looked for!The dynamics of choice The decisions we make and why?The role of the unconscious and how it interrupts our decisions!Early sexual and love choices and how they impact our patterns!Recognising our own desire separate from what family and friends want for us!Consciously choosing!Knowing your Deal Breakers!- Does it help you or hinder you? Does it over focus you on what you don’t want and where is the...
Published 04/04/23
This week Mairead and Stephanie discuss the important conversations you should consider having before moving in together. Finances can you put this means in terms of equality and responsibility.Cleaning and chores - , how small things can irritate but how women need to be careful not carry the emotional load.Work schedules-finding couple time and setting it aside amidst busy work schedules.Alone time and how much are personal space you need.Decisions-discuss how decisions will get made, and...
Published 03/24/23
In this episode of Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead discuss Narcissists. What is the narcissistic abuse cycle? Behaviours of a narcissist - High sense of importance - Need to be admired and seen as superior - Critical of others - No problem using someone for their own advantage - Envious of others and feel others are envious of them How to break up with a narcissist How to heal after dating a narcissist. If you would like to get in contact with us or book a private session with...
Published 03/15/23