Navigating the intricacies of military divorces and business ownership in marriage is no small feat, as my conversation with Amanda, an accomplished family law attorney from San Diego, so vividly reveals. With a compassionate ear and a shrewd legal eye, she shares her experiences guiding clients through the turbulent waters of what can be one of life’s most challenging transitions. Amanda offers a treasure trove of insights, from the importance of setting realistic expectations to...

Discover the roadmap to financial resiliency as Carmen Dellutri, a financial crisis attorney, unpacks the intricacies of rebuilding your economic foundation after divorce. This episode will leave you equipped with the tools needed to overcome the shift from dual to single-income living, emphasizing the power of financial discipline and prudent estate planning. Carmen's expertise shines a light on the necessity of a comprehensive fiscal analysis, focusing on the intricate balance of income,...

Have you ever wondered how the legal system adapts to the ever-changing dynamics of modern families? Family law expert Jackie Harounian from Wisselman, Harounian & Associates Law Firm joins us to unpack the complexities of custody arrangements, child support, and the nuances of New York's surrogacy law. With over two decades of experience, Jackie highlights the transition from 'matrimonial law' to 'family law,' reflecting the diverse forms of contemporary family structures. She...

Witnessing the unraveling of my own parents' marriage as a child left me with a suitcase of unanswered questions and emotions. Fast forward to today, and we're joined by Billie, a family attorney from Gilbert, Arizona, who not only lived a similar story but also dedicated her career to guiding others through the choppy seas of family law. In this heart-to-heart talk, she shares valuable insights on how the echoes of divorce resonate with children and young adults, emphasizing that the...

Having walked the tightrope between justice and legal misapprehensions, Asia Scarlett-Jones joins us to unravel the complexities of family law. Her transition from a public defender to championing her own practice in downstate New York showcases a relentless pursuit to mend the chasms within the legal framework, especially when it comes to representing children and marginalized voices. Together, we dissect the often erroneous beliefs that cloud the issues of custody and equitable division of...

Have you ever considered the path less taken in the world of divorce? Scott Levin, an esteemed mediator and family law attorney, joins me for a profound conversation on the transformative power of mediation over litigation. Throughout our discussion, Scott, with his extensive knowledge in both finance and law, offers a fresh lens to view divorce resolution. He highlights the ability of mediation to foster a more personalized and less adversarial solution for all involved. We tackle the myths...

This chapter welcomes Maya Shulman of the Shulman Family Law Group to share her journey into family law, a field she never planned to pursue but now navigates with expertise. We explore why attorneys often find themselves in family law by chance and the importance of specialized knowledge in this area, given the long-term impact it has on clients' lives. Maya emphasizes the dangers of inexperienced legal representation and the pitfalls of underestimating family law complexities, such as...

Ever wondered how empathy can be a powerful tool in the courtroom? Join me, Matthew Pfeiffer, as I sit down with Megan L. Drury from GRGB Law, a family law attorney with a heart. With a journey that took her from the world of mental health to the legal landscape of family law, Megan offers us a unique insight into the complexities of navigating clients' emotions during some of the most challenging periods of their lives. Discover how her empathetic approach, coupled with a fierce...

This chapter addresses the intricacies of attorney billing, emphasizing the importance of understanding the scope of representation and when fees are considered earned, especially in flat fee arrangements. We examine ethical considerations in billing and the need for clear communication regarding the extent of services covered. Additionally, I touch on the necessity of litigation versus mediation, outlining the attorney's role in guiding clients through this decision based on their unique...

This chapter examines the complex issue of false domestic violence claims and the misuse of restraining orders, as relayed by my detective friend with 21 years of experience, who has found that about half of such calls may be unfounded. I discuss the motives behind these actions, which can range from custody battles to immigration benefits, and underscore the term 'toxicity' as a catch-all for the damaging behaviors that drive such scenarios. We also touch on the red flags that may signal a...

This chapter we explore the complexities of handling debt in divorce within a community property state, with a particular focus on Texas law. We discuss the importance of the date of separation in distinguishing between communal and individual debt, the role of income and the concept of temporary spousal maintenance versus the challenges of obtaining spousal maintenance post-divorce. We also touch on the distribution of assets and how one's financial contribution during the marriage can...

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Navigating the complexities of relationships and the emotional whirlwind of divorce requires a certain finesse and understanding that few possess. Enter Brian Blitz, a seasoned family law attorney from Chicago, who joins me, Matthew Phifer, on an insightful episode of the Matt Phifer Experience. Together, we peel back the layers of matrimonial law, revealing Brian's personal embarking into the legal realm and how his approach to client relationships defies the typical lawyer stereotypes....

In this video we will talk about considering and having an honest and open conversation with your friend about the financial strain and the challenges you've faced in the past when her husband attends. Express that it's not about excluding him personally, but rather about managing the budget for the dinner. You can suggest alternative solutions, such as a potluck or having everyone contribute a small amount to cover the expenses. #aita #cashcowmakers #talkinghead #talkingheads #friends...

This chapter focuses on the challenges of mediating cases that involve narcissistic individuals, particularly in the context of legal disputes. I share insights on the nature of narcissism, emphasizing the difficulty in getting narcissists to agree or see alternative viewpoints. I discuss strategies used to manage and settle disputes involving narcissists, such as valuing their contributions and giving them a sense of power through choices. The use of praise and strategic options is...

In this video, It's evident that you're going through a challenging situation, dealing with your sister's health issues and the impact it has on your life events. It's understandable that you feel frustrated and want to ensure that your important moments are not overshadowed. Additionally, we would like to emphasize the significance of mental health awareness and support systems. Mental health challenges can sometimes lead to unimaginable acts of despair. By fostering an open dialogue about...

This chapter welcomes Raymond Heckmat, a mediating divorce attorney from Beverly Hills, who shares insights on the complexities of litigation versus mediation in divorce proceedings. I emphasize the importance of prenuptial agreements, advocating for their near-mandatory status given the inevitability of a marriage ending in death or divorce. Raymond outlines his shift from contentious litigation to a more peaceful mediation and consulting practice, highlighting the benefits for clients...

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Chapter 1 Common Mistakes in Divorce Proceedings 00:01 This chapter explores the impact of divorce on individuals and families. Host Matthew Phifer welcomes guest Michael Panella, a criminal and family law attorney, to discuss the long-term effects of divorce and the importance of avoiding common mistakes during the process. Pinnell shares his personal experience as a child of divorce and how it influenced his career path. The consequences of poorly written divorce decrees and the...

Let's embark on a deeply compelling journey with Lauren, an attorney, mediator, and a beacon of hope for those ensnared in high-conflict divorces and custody battles. Coming from Upstate New York, Lauren brings a unique perspective, imbued with years of experience working with domestic violence victims, guiding us through the legal maze of divorces and custody situations. She offers wisdom on how to rise above immediate desires and aim for what the future holds. A future that might seem...

Ready to gain insights into estate planning? Get set for a one-on-one with Lindsay Wheeler, a wizard in the field, as we navigate the intricate world of estate planning, powers of attorney and revocable living trusts. With Lindsay's expertise, we'll make the complex simple and show you why it's crucial to have a comprehensive plan for your assets and loved ones. As we venture deeper into the realm of estate planning, we'll spotlight the importance of a revocable living trust. Uncover the...

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We've got a fascinating episode lined up for you today, featuring Joy Rosenthal, a professor, lawyer, and divorce mediator from the buzzing metropolis of New York City. Joy's unique journey from social work to law has been marked by her focus on family issues, with a special emphasis on the needs of children involved in divorce cases. Join us as Joy shares valuable insights on the role of mediators, busting myths about the cost of divorce, and the critical aspects of property division,...