In the “What Self Love Looks Like in IRL” episode, Triggered AF co-hosts got even more honest about the flaws they’re still working through and the actions they’re taking to work through them. It is absolutely okay to decide exactly what works for you and stand in that. Alechia and Dani got very real and provided a number of practical solutions and tools that can be used to overcome the challenges our flaws present.    SPONSORED BY: Dating Well AF Course, visit to learn more: http://datingwellaf.com   KEY POINTS: Some things that we sometimes see as flaws aren’t always flaws. Sometimes it just won’t work in the space we’re trying to put it in.    Way too many people say they’re “working on it,” and yet take no actionable steps to actually work on it.   Many times we revert, the goal is to determine what you do after you revert.   QUOTABLES: “It can be very difficult to submit after so many years of having to figure it out on our own.” “America has hardened women, so many of them think they have to leave in order to be soft.” “We’re all trying to figure out a new normal and it can cause a lot of head butting.”   CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS: Alechia Reese For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese Dani Bourdeau For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau   RESOURCES: For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com   Like what you're hearing? Follow Triggered AF and share the love! IG: instagram.com/triggeredafpc Twitter: twitter.com/triggeredafpc FB: facebook.com/triggeredafpc YouTube: youtube.com/channel/@triggeredafpodcast   Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.