In the “How to Stop Self-Sabotaging When Dating” episode, Triggered AF hosts, Alechia & Dani get honest about all the ways in which we sabotage ourselves when we’re dating. If you want to attract better partners you’ll want to get super clear about what works for you. From there, it’s crucial to work on the parts of you that don’t yet believe you deserve what you want so you sabotage yourself. You set the standard and boundaries for the way people handle you. Treat yourself so well that anytime you’re treated contrary to what is your norm or standard, you can course correct. You’ll be waiting a long time hoping for others to validate your importance in the world. So, first start with you! Listen in now for a little taste of what’s included in the DWAF course and use these tools to date well and live even better. Watch the conversation on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/q0UCIcyouak      Discover the best types of partners for you with the “What Type Dater Are You?” Quiz: https://bit.ly/dwafquiz   SPONSORED BY: Dating Well AF Course, visit to learn more: http://datingwellaf.com   KEY POINTS: Be intentional with how you treat and love yourself. Set the standard for how people treat you. Identify what you love about yourself and work on ways to show self-appreciation. Learn to be vulnerable about your journey and tell yourself the truth.   QUOTABLES: “If you do not believe that you are worthy of good things, you begin to attract things and people that do not treat you well.”   “Replace negative self-talk with positivity.”   “Learn yourself so that you can choose your partner and not settle for being chosen.”   “Set boundaries and standards that you are able to maintain as well.”     CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS: Alechia Reese For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese Dani Bourdeau For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau   RESOURCES: For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com   Like what you're hearing? Follow Triggered AF and share the love! IG: instagram.com/triggeredafpc Twitter: twitter.com/triggeredafpc FB: facebook.com/triggeredafpc YouTube: youtube.com/channel/@triggeredafpodcast   Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.