Just about every married couple will tell you that marriage is hard work. Nowadays, it seems as though the emphasis is on the wedding and not so much on the subsequent days, months and hopefully years.    The perfect dress, the lavish venue and the overpriced food can easily overshadow the real preparation that is needed for a lasting marriage. You know we like to go straight to the source! We are joined this week by Dani’s husband, real estate investor, entrepreneur and co-founder of Fly Supply Clothing, Reginald Bourdeau. The newlyweds are here to offer a bit of transparency into what married life has been like for them after the honeymoon. From why it’s important NOT to pick your battles to how couples can set healthy boundaries to thrive, this episode is a masterclass in making your marriage not just work but flourish. Tap into this week’s episode for an open and honest conversation about love and marriage. The perfect marriage doesn’t exist. Your union is yours to discover and uncover over and over again so that you may fall in love over and over again. May the odds forever be in your favor.    SPONSORED BY: Dating Well AF Course, visit to learn more: http://datingwellaf.com KEY POINTS & QUOTES: I am not responsible for your happiness. I am here to add to it, to make you happier. Having grace for your partner is essential to making things work. You have to get comfortable with tough, uncomfortable conversations. Intimate partners are often a mirror that we can use to heal and grow if we allow it. Learning to raise your emotional IQ will help save your marriage time and time again. Teaching children confidence and self esteem will enable them to show up as themselves early and often.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST Reginald Bourdeau Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/reginaldbourdeau/  Website | https://flysupplyclothing.com  Podcast | https://4qtrs.media  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/4qtrs-podcast/id1687284460    CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS: Alechia Reese For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese LinkedIn | linkedin.com/in/alechiareese Dani Bourdeau For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau   RESOURCES: For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com   Like what you're hearing? Follow Triggered AF and share the love! IG: instagram.com/triggeredafpc YouTube: youtube.com/channel/@triggeredafpodcast   Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.