If you’re in the midst of an infidelity situation, there are plenty of opportunities for you to think of yourself as an a*****e. Humans tend to be terrified of the idea that other people won’t like them, but they’re particularly terrified that the people they love might think they’re a total a*****e. However, have you ever stopped and considered the possibility that you might be an a*****e?   Dr. Marie Murphy is unpacking the idea that just because someone else thinks you’re an a*****e, that doesn’t mean you are an a*****e. She’s also discussing the problem of trying to actively avoid anyone taking issue with your behavior and how to start taking more responsibility by accepting that being an a*****e at some point in your life is inevitable.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://mariemurphyphd.com/157