FLOW: Finding Love Over Worry – Before we get into the episode, guess what? THE BOOK IS AVAILABLE TO PRE-ORDER!!! Yes, I know!  I guess those vision boards worked! Seriously though, I poured my heart and soul into the pages of FLOW.  Every word was written with intention. There are fun surprises in the book, breadcrumbs just for you.  FLOW is filled with reminders that magic is always around you and it can be accessed whenever you, Find Love Over Worry. This pre-order is for you. I will be sending you a signed book with a special “gift”. It is nothing fancy, just my way to say thank you for supporting me.  Go to: www.flowbykelleywolf.com Click the pre-order button. USE CODE: FLOWPOD for 11 % off all orders. (You know how much I love the number 11) Buy 5 or more, we have a little something extra for you. Buy 11 or more, we have something extra for you and an additional gift. ~ And now to the episode… Holidays are upon us. The year is ending. I hear a lot of people commenting on the “stress” and the intensity around us. If you don’t have a short fuse at the moment, this will still be valuable. We all need these gentle reminders.  This episode is about “Holding the Love Line”. Ok…I know how hard this may feel right now.  We are being pushed and tested. Or are we?  I want to offer the gift of perspective and also remember that we cannot barter pain.  Your experience is yours and it is all relative.  That being said, in ALL situations we can choose love. We can also get mad as hell. We can say our peace. We can defend ourselves and all of it can come from love. The key is where and how you feel it. What are you trying to achieve? Is it manipulation or winning. Is your end goal to feel peace? Or is it rightness? Is it justice? Is it for healing? In all of these instances, LOVE is a choice.  LOVE has powerful fight energy.  WE are not levitating in the woods. Let me say it again, LOVE and sass can co-exist.  Hate and Love cannot share a bed. That is a no fly zone.  Boundaries on the other hand are rooted in love when presented with transparency and compassion. This episode has scripts you can follow to manage common holiday woes.  I wish you all love.  See you next year!! ~ We are deeply grateful to our sponsors: Vintners Daughter http://vintnersdaughter.com Eleven Eleven Wines https://www.elevenelevenwines.com Margaret Webb Life Coaching https://www.margaretwebblifecoach.com Blueberry Nutrition https://blueberry-nutrition.com ~ This podcast is produced by Citizens of Sound and is edited by the incomparable, Will Retherford. https://www.citizensofsound.com