“In the episode regarding expressing needs: the example was given of wanting a partner to say hello to that speaker before he greeted the dogs. This is NOT an example of a need. It’s an example of how an insecure it attached person feels jealousy towards a dog with a negativity bias and being unable to express directly “I love you and want to hug you. “. It’s passive aggressive. It’s NOT a sign of communication of a need or a development towards secure attachment. It’s demanding that a partner does what YOU can do; which is to self soothe and express LOVE to the partner AND the dog WITHOUT fear or jealousy. …. That ep needs work.”
trexmonster via Apple Podcasts ·
Australia ·
07/24/23