This is how you do it from the inside out. LEARN A NEW LANGUAGE WITH LINGODA: Get a 7-day free trial + 20% off your first month - https://try.lingoda.com/Ariel   JOIN MY SOCIALIZING WORKSHOPS: https://beacons.ai/niu.views BOOK 1:1 COACHING: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu    0:00 People-Pleasing vs Kindness 1:57 Genuine Compliments 3:19 Know Your Wants / Needs 4:04 Decisive / Definitive Communication 7:41 Sharp / Soft Dynamics 8:40 Body Language 9:37...

You are attached to nobody.   GET THE WORKPLACE BOUNDARIES SCRIPTS + GUIDE: https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts   BOOK 1:1 COACHING: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu   Study Notes: - TENSION with BOUNDARIES: When we are UNCLEAR/INSECURE about our own INTENTIONS. - REACTIVENESS happens when we ATTACH our worth, needs, standards, liberation to others. - To resolve CONFUSION: Go to the ROOT, re-plant your TRUE INTENTIONS. - To resolve INSECURITY: KNOW and BE,...

Confidence leans towards self - my presence, speech, delivery. Charisma leans towards others - flow, dynamics, engagement with others. BOOK COACHING: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu  Improve your social presence, delivery, and influences on others.   Study Notes: - INDIVIDUAL-GROUP FLOW: start a conversation with 1 individual in group (e.g. 'any upcoming trips planned Sarah?'), while having moments dropping questions and small statements to the rest of the group...

You are the presenter, and the initiator and alchemist of the energy in the room.   *BOOK COACHING:* https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu  Improve your social presence, delivery, interactions and influences on others.   *Study Notes* - Break the fourth wall with the audience before the presentation (casual chitchat). - Have a confident base that is sustainable - honed authenticity with nonchalance. - Honed authenticity = 'being real with a secret' kind of energy. -...

  Know the difference between being SHARP / SOFT vs being SUPERIOR / INFERIOR. GET A 1-MONTH FREE TRIAL WITH SKILLSHARE: https://skl.sh/newviewswitharielniu03241 The SkillShare Learning Path I am taking is called 'ChatGPT for Creatives', join me :) Tips: - Understand and accept your natural expressions - Notice the differences between your natural expressions vs reactive expressions - Remove reactiveness from initial sharp / soft responses - Active Breathing, remember your Intention,...

  When I’m in my element socially, my words and presence come naturally and attractively to both others and myself. However, I used to catch then LOSE this flow all the time. When I lose it in the moment, things become awkward in an instant. I’ve realized the trick for me to hold attention with ease and flow is to dynamically shift between certain extremes. SHARP/SOFT, FAST/SLOW, SINCERE/FUNNY, OPEN/INTIMATE, etc. ..always with active breathing.   *CONNECT:* Book 1-on-1 Coaching -...

Nonchalance as a self-mastery technique, is not about caring or not caring. It’s about feeling light and good, inside and out, as often as possible, so every interaction we face can be experienced at its highest potential, with the least amount of energy needed. Balanced nonchalance flows between soft + sharp without going to the extremes.   *CONNECT:* Book Coaching - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/produc... Get an Energy Reading - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/produc... MediVibe...

How can we collectively become comfortable being nonchalantly honest AND confidently kind? Piercing the social matrix starts with each of us, in knowing eye-level balance in live moments.   CONNECT: Personal Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews Spotify...

To be intentional = we do less and achieve more, we exude natural confidence, and every moment can be guided with ease and grace. TIPS: - Good intentions are balanced in Sharp / Soft: - SHARP: clear, decisive, committed to the vision. - SOFT: open, curious, flexible on the how. - apply this for personal intentions + intentions during interactions with others. - Your ultimate self (Him/Her/They) is your north star in moment-by-moment intentions. - Ask yourself, ‘what would He/She/They do?’,...

It's not about REPEATING, it's about FEELING. You must strategically trigger the precise thoughts/emotions of your intentions. BOOK COACHING: https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/coaching-with-energy-reading SOCIAL INTERACTIONS HANDBOOK: https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/the-social-interactions-handbook   What we think, feel, speak - we are and we become. It’s about thinking, feeling, and speaking like that Him/Her/They NOW.   Tips for Mantras: - Have clear intentions for your...

I guarantee results in days, if you use every moment in your day as practice. It's easy. BOOK COACHING: https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/coaching-with-energy-reading SOCIAL INTERACTIONS HANDBOOK: https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/the-social-interactions-handbook   TIPS: BE INTENTIONAL BE DEFINITIVE SLOW DOWN, BREATHE, PAUSE REDUCE FILLER WORDS/PHRASES e.g. ‘like’ ‘just’ ‘so’ ‘um/uh’ ‘you know’ LIVE ACKNOWLEDGEMENT e.g. ask ‘scenario’ questions e.g. address needs, traits,...

Save your energy, smile without laughter-padding, and BE REAL. Get Coaching with an Energy Reading from me: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu   TIPS: Start with slow and soft energy Share only what you want to share Be calm and concise in honesty Soften honesty with gratitude Instead of conforming, do nothing Instead of conforming, get curious Be light and nonchalant Observe and refine without emotion (aka meditate and cry/vent later lol) Know how you ideally want...

No inferiority, no superiority (they can feel what you feel on the inside), keep it eye-level. Get Coaching with an Energy Reading: https://bit.ly/ArielNiuEnergyCoaching Save 11% with code: SAVEME11 TIPS: Soft and Sharp responses are only negatively experienced when imbalanced Imbalances = feeling INFERIOR or SUPERIOR INFERIORITY symptoms: people-pleasing, laughter-padding, white lies SUPERIORITY symptoms: reactiveness, judgement over observation, attachment YOUR ENERGY: what you embody...

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Get an energy reading from me. Understand who you truly are. Maximize your ultimate potential. https://bit.ly/niuviewsenergyreading   These are clips from my reading videos where I show my clients their unique energies, how to master thoughts/emotions/actions, and how to identify and meet their highest potential. We each have a "template" set of energies, which are our natural tendencies, capabilities, and expressions. When these energies are understood, balanced, and honed...we find flow,...

Looking at how the energy in our thoughts and emotions work while I’m on some Amazonian mushrooms.   0:25 Today’s 🍄 1:44 Seeing myself and others in spectrums instead of polarities 4:03 Downloads and visions 5:35 Psychedelics for self-development 6:58 Training my peace through nature 7:31 Transforming emotions of fear 9:00 Vulnerability and pain 9:29 Seeing emotions in an energy spectrum 10:41 How to guide the onset of intense emotions 13:44 The value of a meditative practice 14:51 How to...

Life-changing tips when setting big goals in life! Extended Version: https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal KEY TIPS: Vague Goals = INSECURITIES. Clear Goals = CONFIDENCE Vague Goals = when a person is not fully intentional and committed to their goals + does not fully believe their goals can happen Everything intentional we experience are all technically goals fulfilled. The easy ones come easy only because we matter-of-fact KNOW, zero doubt, that of course it's happening. Be more intentional...

If you're asking this question, this is something you must look at. This is a snippet from one of my energy readings. The individual was confused about their current relationship, but feels bad about feeling how they feel. The thing is, figuring this out is beneficial for all parties involved in the long run. And the answer will come from connecting deeper with the self. ↓ JOIN MY PORTAL ↓ https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Content and resources on self, social, and spiritual...

  6 steps to solve mixed emotions: Analyze each emotion/option individually Decide CLEARLY the END GOAL Is there a way to address BOTH? ACCEPT, then DETACH, from ALL OUTCOMES BELIEVE and THINK and FEEL the BEST OUTCOME REMEMBER we have untangled and broken the loop   ↓ SEE MY TIKTOK/REEL ABOUT CONFLICTING EMOTIONS ↓ https://www.instagram.com/p/CqB7FMtAMXo/  https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views/video/7212779280760048901    ↓ SIGN UP FOR MY EMAILS ↓ https://beacons.ai/niu.views The Consciously...

  Be the energy of true love to experience it. To be, we must first understand, learn, and believe it. And not just any love energy, true love energy.   ↓ GET AN ENERGY READING ↓ https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/birth-chart-energy-reading   ↓ SIGN UP FOR MY EMAILS ↓ https://beacons.ai/niu.views The Consciously Developing community is launching Spring 2023. A space where I show you how to connect with yourself and others and be in Love with life.   ↓ GET THE THOUGHT MANIFESTATION GUIDE...

When do we use a lot of words to present a thought or idea? When we have a lack of clarity on the end goal of the interaction, and a lack of belief in ourselves. This 4-minute video explains HOW TO SAY LESS WITH MORE CONFIDENCE.   See an example of this in 15 seconds on my TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube shorts.   ↓ BOOK A VIDEO CONVERSATION WITH ME ↓ https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/a-conversation-with-ariel-niu   ↓ GET THE THOUGHT MANIFESTATION GUIDE ↓...

5 steps to untangle any unwanted emotion: 1) PAUSE and BREATHE until reactiveness dies 2) FEEL the emotion to understand it 3) Remember everyone and everything is a MIRROR and REFLECTION of what is going on within us (thoughts and emotions) 4) Decide CLEARLY what you WANT 5A) Let it go, do nothing external, shift the internal OR 5B) Let the emotion go, take intentional and inspired actions with lightness   ↓ BOOK A VIDEO CONVERSATION WITH ME ↓...

"Planting seeds” 🌱 is gentle and subtle persuasion and encouragement of an intention, more so through energy than words. See my recent Reels and TikToks on subtle persuasion: https://instagram.com/niu.views https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views   ↓ BOOK A PRIVATE CONVERSATION WITH ME ↓ https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/a-conversation-with-ariel-niu   ↓ GET THE THOUGHT MANIFESTATION BOOK ↓ https://bit.ly/ThinkingArielNiu   ↓ SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL ↓ https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews   ↓...

Psychedelics woke me up, manifested my dreams, revealed the future, and answered all questions about myself and this universe. Here are my stories, processes, and tips if you are curious about LSD, psilocybin mushrooms, or marijuana. They won't change your life for you, but they will show you the way. DISCLAIMER: This video has been created for educational, informational, and harm-reduction purposes. We do not provide or encourage psychoactive or controlled substance use, nor are we licensed...