I would have given them a higher rating, but I feel that they both (Vanessa in particular) can be a little self-righteous. Most of the advice they give is great and I think very helpful! However, there have been a couple of occasions where they are just flat wrong (like so much in the squirting...Read full review »
PlentyOPeaches via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/23/23
While my wife and I have hit a few snags in our relationship, this podcast has consistently helped to make both of us feel validated in our feelings and provide great advice for overcoming some of these challenges. Vanessa and Xander have the best chemistry that really helps drive home their...Read full review »
Mlw1017 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/21/23
This podcast is truly one of the best podcasts I have listened to (and I listen to a lot)! I originally started listening to this podcast to get more comfortable talking about sex and asking for what I want, which this has helped with more than I can say! But, it doesn’t stop there! Vanessa and...Read full review »
Toni0424 via Apple Podcasts · Canada · 09/21/23
This podcast has been so helpful for my sex life with my husband! We have both started listening and it’s helped up communicate better about the things we struggle with in our sex life! I found Vanessa and Xander on instagram a few months ago and have been listening ever since. Thank you both for...Read full review »
aly seaman via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/19/23
Great insight with interesting perspectives. Highly recommend for new ideas.
Ss Pauly walnuts via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/15/23
I can’t believe I have waited this long to write a review! I have followed Venessa and Xander for a couple of years, have listened to many if their podcasts, got a few of their courses and listened to their book (borrowed from local library). Thank you for being so real, so vulnerable and such a...Read full review »
Mahi Luna via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/14/23
My entire life I’ve had great sexual relationships with my partners, but unfortunately everything else lacked. Thankfully my current partner has given me a new perspective on love, and we are thriving.. well in every aspect but the bedroom. Vanessa and Xander have made every conversation...Read full review »
AlisonB. via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/13/23
This podcast and your courses have given my husband and I such a fun sex life. Also, the conversations that have come up from topics discussed here have made us feel so much closer. Even when we thought we had good communication and sex, we’ve learned so many new things that have made it even...Read full review »
__souf via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/11/23
Our relationship was struggling in many ways but mostly the bedroom and intimacy in general. We both listened to these podcasts and it finally hit my partner more than anything I have tried to say. And we are now back to how it was when we first started dating!! Thank you
Mooks17 via Apple Podcasts · Canada · 09/11/23
After having my third child, I found myself in a dead bedroom situation because I was so touched out from my kids and just overwhelmed with the everyday minutia of responsibilities. I had completely lost my libido. But one day when I was driving, I happened to listen to a podcast where Vanessa...Read full review »
GirlReawakened!! via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/09/23
Thank you for this podcast! I recently found it and have been catching up fast. It always feels like I’m part of the conversation bc you make each episode so fun and light while educating us on the topic. (Hearing the embarrassing stories make my day!) I’ve sent different episodes to different...Read full review »
Jen LN via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/08/23
Vanessa and Xander are truly changing lives with this podcast. As a therapist myself I’m always recommending episodes (and their book) to clients. Also have to share that my partner and I recently did their connection challenge and we are both loving it so much. We are busy parents and it’s been...Read full review »
cassidyfrei via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/08/23
Hi guys. I’ve loved your podcast since I found in last year. So helpful and insightful while keeping things lighthearted and comical. However, for the first time I found myself not relating to Vanessa at all. Here I am writing my first review and what ~pushed~ me to? The fart talk haha. My...Read full review »
Aaaaaaaaaaaaalolo via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/07/23
I grew up in a family that never talked about sex, even in age appropriate contexts, so I’ve struggled a lot to learn on my own for the last 29 years of my life lol. I thought I was very enlightened because I overcame my upbringing of ignorance, but I feel this podcast is shedding new light to so...Read full review »
grimesreaper via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/04/23
Fellow Maggie pug owner. But This really is the “ sex education “ I wish I would have had.🤩🫣🫢😬😩😳🙈😰🆘
ahkwjx via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/31/23
These guys are it. They taught me not only how to make my relationship better but to communicate my needs and to not settle until I find a guy as vulnerable and supportive as Xander— well the search is definitely not over but at least my standard for my relationship has transformed. I will find...Read full review »
kayinquarentine via Apple Podcasts · New Zealand · 08/30/23
My husband of right at a year found your podcast months ago and recommended I checked it out as I spend a lot of time in my car for work. I have always struggled with our bedroom time. I put being tired first, new ideas scare me, and just never have had a big sex drive unlike my husband. After...Read full review »
Cheymeyers cccccc via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/29/23
You guys, 🏄🏼‍♂️👩🏽‍⚕️I can't say enough good things about this podcast! 🎙️I've been married for almost 2 years now, 👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏼and you've helped to encourage us to have the healthiest sex life possible! I often use the things I learn on your podcast to spark sexy conversation between my...Read full review »
MVas90 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/26/23
As a therapist, I am very happy to here you guys talk so openly about sexual health. I love how diverse and culturally orientated you are. Not every couple is a heterosexual couple and your awareness of this and how open and accepting you are speaks volumes to the quality of podcast this is....Read full review »
caibou lover via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/26/23
I started listening to this podcast several months ago and it has taught me SO much! My husband has said on many accounts, “thank you to that podcast you listen to” it has helped me become more adventurous and also very understanding! KEEP IT UP! ❤️❤️❤️
Kellythomas1022 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/25/23
Such a good podcast! I learn a lot and I laugh a lot! Definitely a top podcast in my book! 10/10 would recommend!!🙌🏽
Ash113086 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/18/23
I just got one of your courses thank you for sharing! I am so excited! I had the best conversation with my partner and he’s so excited to start the course with me! You guys are amazing!
Excited to be alive! via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/17/23
I’m really not one to do reviews but I truly love this podcast. It’s the perfect combination of fun conversation and incredible advice that you need in a podcast. I found this when I was going through a tough spot post baby and the amount of concrete amazing advice it gives about relationships is...Read full review »
hayrayC via Apple Podcasts · Canada · 08/16/23
SO good! Im always sending episodes to my boyfriend, it makes getting the conversation started so much easier
ZoëKen via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/16/23
The giggling and laughing from Vanessa is absolutely intolerable. Are you actually a professional? Get it together! It is every 20 seconds and over the dumbest things. No one thinks your “merch” ideas are funny. They go off on the most boring tangents as if there is no audience on the other end....Read full review »
RosieeeLo via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/13/23
I listen to every episode of the podcast, follow on IG, have some guides, and have read their book “sex talks” and I love every single one! 😍 Before finding V & X, my husband and I rarely talked about sex and I never had an orgasm. 🫣 But now we regularly talk about sex and every time I want...Read full review »
Woobear92 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/11/23
This couple make sex topics a relatable, digestible and safe place 🙌🏽 They are knowledgeable, funny and kind people- they deserve all the support for putting out content with the goal of helping people develop their intimacy skills. Y’all rock🫶🏽
BrownLady98 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/10/23
I’m so happy I came across Vanessa and Xander’s podcast! Every day I listen to one or more episodes, as well as keep up with their content on Instagram. Although I’m not currently in a position to purchase any of their resources, my friends have purchased some of their resources just off of my...Read full review »
Caitin, Colleen, Mom via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/09/23
This has quickly become my very favorite podcast simply because the topics are so real; whether struggling or not! I started out by reading your book “Sex Talks” (to be honest I only started reading because I was on the waitlist for my other must reads and needed something to pass the time) and...Read full review »
Courtneyjane via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/04/23
I stumbled onto Vanessa and Xander’s podcast after seeing one of their videos pop up on Instagram…. it was a clip from their “butt stuff” You Tube video. I had never heard two people talk so candidly and honestly about the real life struggles that come with sex in a long-term relationship. I...Read full review »
Ali-Monkey via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/04/23
I am a 60 year old woman. I have a strong sex drive and there are things I don't know and want to still experience. It's not just for the younger folks. Grandma wants to get some!! So much great information here, wrapped up in humor and kindness.Read full review »
maurers09 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/29/23
First episode I listened was The Truth About Why We’re Childfree and for the first time in my life, I also bawled on an airplane while listening. It was so relatable and reassuring to hear you talk about the grief among other things of your decision. You put to words things I’ve had a hard time...Read full review »
kendal.outdoors via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/27/23
I started this podcast and could not stop. It really is the sex talk you wish you had. Xander and Vanessa are hilarious and make it such a safe space for all your questions and concerns. I cannot recommend a better podcast!
Beckiwright11 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/26/23
My wife and I have been together since high school👩‍🎓🧑‍🎓 and we love our life. When we have sex, it’s almost always GREAT for us both. But after so many kids 🫠😴 and just regular old life 🎢🎡🎉, we wound up on different pages about sex. This podcast has led us back toward one another 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨and...Read full review »
Spectreshade85 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/26/23
This podcast is fantastic. Full of great information and entertaining too! Even if you have a great sex life, there are some excellent conversation starters here. Mostly, though, I love the work these two are doing to combat shame about sex. I highly recommend it to my clients and now I’m...Read full review »
Kristeeng via Apple Podcasts · Canada · 07/20/23
I found this podcast from another podcast. I love how conversational and digestible the content is. I have used some of this information in my relationship and I have even had my partner listen to a few episodes. Love, love, love the show and it has inspired me to make a bit of career shift and...Read full review »
Aisha Nicole via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/19/23
This podcast is amazing!!!! I was having struggles with my marriage and didn’t know what to do or if it was me because I thought what was happening wasn’t normal. I reached out to the ladygang podcast group and some of them recommended this podcast. Let me tell you, I ugly cried at the bristle...Read full review »
katt77895 via Apple Podcasts · Great Britain · 07/18/23
Practical and useful advice Humble, funny, and informative hosts
jilop via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/17/23
The more I listen to you too the more I want to try stuff !!! My only issue is that your book Sex talks doesn’t seem to be available in French and I would like my husband to read it with me ;) Patsy Paris, France
mina20000006 via Apple Podcasts · France · 07/16/23
I stumbled upon your podcast a few days ago. I immediately listened to them non stop. I’ve known I have had a problem with being insecure and shy with my husband for the 5 years we’ve been together. Tonight I talked to him about listening and told him I was going to try to be more outgoing. We...Read full review »
Mommaofthreeky via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/15/23
A podcast about sex that’s really not about sex at all (well, sometimes it totally is). I cannot stress enough how much I appreciated finding this podcast. I listen (and read their book) as a way to ‘take care of my side of the street’, as Vanessa likes to say, and even just that has helped...Read full review »
Ahoyadave via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/15/23
I used to enjoy this podcast but I'm finding myself less interested and more annoyed by it. I appreciate that they get feedback from their instagram community but it's so dangerous to present that as if it's actual research. Their confirmation bias is so intense. If poll results...Read full review »
Iocmac via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/14/23
I grew up in a high demand Christian religion and culture and I knew NOTHING about sex. It was taboo, sinful until marriage and purely procreation-al. I am so grateful for this podcast because it has helped me and my husband as newlyweds, navigate our new intimate relationship as well as grow our...Read full review »
RaShoota via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/13/23
I am really disappointed by the recent initiation episode. I listened to the entire episode waiting for one piece of advice only to find out I was listening to an advertisement for their course. I know the hosts have so much good information but too many episodes focus on “buy our book” and “buy...Read full review »
Megshu12345 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/13/23
I just started listening to this podcast a couple weeks ago, and I feel so much better already about sex. My husband and I own a business so we are working all the time and then would attempt to have sex before bed but we were too tired most of the time. This podcast has given us some new ideas...Read full review »
bscogg10 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/13/23
I was introduced to Vanessa on Glennon’s podcast and a friend mentioned that you also have a podcast. I had to try it out and I’m hooked! I even turned my boyfriend on to this podcast so we can listen and discuss. Can’t wait to listen to all the episodes.
Happy Como via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/12/23
So glad I stumbled across Vanessa & Xander on Instagram and then started listening to their podcasts! It feels like we’re all just sitting round a table having a coffee and chatting about real life issues with amazing simple, and easy-to-implement tips! Thanks so much for what you’ve done for...Read full review »
MrsT.01 via Apple Podcasts · South Africa · 07/10/23
Love how it’s led to more open convos with my husband. Started off listening the more silly episodes with him and have evolved into some of the heavier topics. It’s improved our communication around sex and provided practical takeaways. Highly recommend!!
Catmanderzzz via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/09/23
Thankful for your podcast! We’re new listeners for the past few months. Having been married for over 32 years, we’re learning so much! From s$x tips to communication! My favorite episode that has changed my marriage is the one on Mental Load!! There results of this episode has improved my...Read full review »
janetwith4 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/09/23
Loved their book reading it for a second time with my husband now!! The podcast is such a great resource!
annakatehawkins via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/07/23
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