Episodes
Turns out, we still occasionally spiral about social media, so yet again this year we made an annual social media episode. In it we discuss an our individual relationship to it, how that’s evolved, how we use it socially, for work, for connection, for comparing and disappearing, and how we're managing our anxiety that comes up around it. We talk about both using it as a consumer and from the creating, contributing, and sharing perspective so regardless of how you use it we hope this...
Published 03/12/24
Our annual episode where we reflect on the year that just ended and unpack our recurring spirals, highs, and themes of 2023. We talked about the areas where we changed, where we stayed the same, what we're proud of, and what we learned from it all in 2023. Happy New Year!
Published 01/17/24
This week our annual holiday episode. The holidays are often a time for heightened emotions, obligations, perhaps travel, hosting, gifting, nostalgia, and general busyness--making them a season for anxiety to run high. So each year we debrief on our seasonal anxiety and the management tools, tips, and ideas that have helped us and hope will help us this year.
Published 12/18/23
In this episode Katie and Serena discuss the emotional ups, downs, and spirals that come from getting older, experiencing physical pain, noticing our bodies changing in various ways. We get into seeing photos taken of ourselves, the gendered double standard of aging, vanity, beauty standards, other people’s perception of our appearance, wha helps us in navigating this recently. It’ a long one and we’re real vulnerable so let us know what you think!
Published 11/30/23
In this episode Katie and Serena discuss the importance of rest. We discuss the benefits of taking breaks to improve our health, happiness, and productivity, while also touching on the surprising difficulty of committing to rest.
Published 11/08/23
In this episode Katie and Serena discuss one of their biggest anxiety triggers: regret… We get into the overlapping angst of regret and guilt, discuss the lingering effects of regret, and touch on how we tend to navigate regret-induced anxiety with it ourselves and with those closest to us.
Published 10/24/23
Move on as Quickly as Possible– In this episode Katie and Serena discuss the anxiety aftermath of a work mistake. We get into the complicated feelings surrounding disappointing oneself and coworkers, the propensity to over apologize, and tools to move forward more quickly and prevent similar errors in the future.
Published 10/11/23
How stress and being “in process” affect anxiety. On feeling stagnant, losing your creative mojo, worrying about being behind, and how perspective is the ultimate reframe. Cheers to your next existential crisis!
Published 09/26/23
We're back,for our annual reintroduction episode, for season 5 (!!!). We do our traditional first episode of the season where we introduce ourselves by asking each other fun questions including an update on favorite drinks, a deep dive on snacks, what we'd be if we had to change careers today, biggest anxiety trigger, and the most important one: socks to bed, yes or no?
Published 09/12/23
We're just checking in while we’re working on season 5. We’re really excited to be back officially soon but in the meantime we’re here to tackle some of the questions you submitted. It was fun to talk about each one and we hope this q and q episode is helpful to the Spiraling community and look forward to being fully back in September with a brand new season.
Published 06/23/23
We're still occasionally spiraling about social media, so yet again this year we made an annual social media episode. In it we discuss an our individual relationship to it, how we use it for work, for connection, for comparing and disappearing, and how we're managing our anxiety that comes up around it. We talk about both using it as a consumer and from the creating, contributing, and sharing perspective so regardless of how you use it we hope this conversation makes you feel less alone, or...
Published 01/25/23
This week we do our annual year in review, unpacking our themes, spirals, high, higher, and highest of the year. We talked about areas we think we learned from, how we change, stayed the same, and what we're proud of each other for in 2022. Happy New Year!
Published 01/12/23
This week our annual holiday episode. The holidays are often a time for heightened emotions, obligations, perhaps travel, hosting, gifting, nostalgia, and general busyness--making them a season for anxiety to run high. So every year we talk about our anxiety around the holiday season and the management tools, tips, and ideas that have helped us and hope will help us this year. Plus our contrasting opinions of the holidays, what we're looking forward to this year and more. Happy Holidays!!...
Published 12/06/22
This week we talked about being okay with changing our opinions and our goals. Living with uncertainty (things can change at any moment). Breakups/Friendships, not trying to hold on to the past, nostalgia. Prioritizing relationships that feel mutual and good, being warm over trying to be cool. Sticking to plans rather than rescheduling as an anxiety management tool and much more.
Published 11/29/22
Part two of our conversation about navigating different timelines and expectations both from ourselves and from society. We continue the conversation about how comparing we're at to others is a recipe for spiraling and what we do that helps. This time we focus on how we thought it would be vs how it actually and get into the physical realities of timelines including: Aging: our Bodies, our parents, and our careers.
Published 11/16/22
This week we talked about navigating different timelines and expectations both from ourselves and from society. We spoke about how being in our 30s means considering having kids, marriage, career choices, money woes and how comparing we're at to others is a recipe for spiraling and what we do that helps.
Published 11/02/22
This week we revisit how we talk about our anxiety with others. A topic we covered 3 years ago in season one, we update on how discussions have changed with friends/family/significant others. (i.e. Serena doesn’t talk to Logan about her anxiety much anymore.) Feeling (un)comfortable communicating about mental health. And how outside of therapy and this show neither of us talk much about our mental health in our daily lives, although in the past we have.
Published 10/18/22
In this episode, Serena and Katie talk about our individual and the collective shifts in perception around mental health. From the perception of therapy, talking about mental health, and how this has changed collectively even since we began this show.
Published 10/04/22
In this episode, Serena and Katie reintroduce themselves for season 4 (!!!) of Spiraling by asking each other fun questions including an update on favorite drinks, latest anxiety coping mechanisms, favorite desserts, pump up songs, book recs, and more.
Published 09/20/22
In this final episode of season 3, review the wild year of 2021 . We covered work, relationships, mental health and more as we went through our highs and spirals of year. The big theme of it all, we noticed was not getting too attached to anything because change is inevitable, so therefore our matra became... hold it loosely! Thank you for being with us for another season, talk to you next year!
Published 12/21/21
In the second to last episode of this season, we answer as many of the questions we could. We talked about control, the difference between overwhelm, anxiety, and stress, triggers of anxiety and triggerless anxiety, and the super power we’d love to have.
Published 12/07/21
It's our annual holiday special episode! We're here early in the "most wonderful time of the year" to talk about mental health before the hustle and bustle fully begins. We talk about holiday ups and downs of it including, traveling, family, melancholy, excitement, hosting, lack of routines, busyness, and more. As usual we share our spirals, laugh even more than usual, and share what's been useful to us that hopefully might be useful to you too or make you feel less alone in any complex...
Published 11/16/21
As the last themed episode of this season, we get into the heavy topic we procrastinated until the end: guilt, shame, and embarrassment. Not our favorite feelings but ones that all bring great anxiety to us. Somehow we laughed a lot in this episode, shared our spirals, and high, higher, highest of the week.
Published 11/02/21
In this week's episode we talk about big societal pressures and how they impact anxiety. We cover big life decisions, pressure to marry/ have children, choosing a forever home, big moves, aging, “having it all together,” and feeling lost. Of course we also share our Spirals for the week as well as our highs.
Published 10/26/21