Episodes
If, like me, you find yourself often in a rush and striving to achieve a goal, you may benefit from hearing in your heart that there is nowhere to get to. In this episode, I explain how this idea has impacted me and why I need reminding from time to time and how it allows me to be the best version of me to create my goals with more ease and wellbeing. 
Published 04/30/24
When I first heard the idea that you can be right or in a relationship it was very sobering. I like to be right! In this episode, we explore how we can create deeper connection in relationships by letting go of the need to be right. 
Published 04/23/24
Do you worry about this? Do you think things can’t come easily? Are you superstitious? I never considered myself superstitious, but I have come to realise that many people are without realising it. It is disempowering. In this episode, I explain how if you worry, you may be superstitious without knowing it and what you can do to be more empowered. 
Published 04/17/24
Expectations are toxic. Do you have expectations of yourself? Of others? Of life? Do you feel others have expectations of you?. These expectations will probably be impacting your wellbeing, happiness and ability to succeed. In this episode we find out what you can do to let them go (whilst still maintaining the standards you want).
Published 04/10/24
One from the archive. “There is no good or bad but thinking makes it so” Shakespeare. What if he was correct? How can that be true when we experience so much suffering and challenges in life? Surely murder is wrong? When we begin to grasp the idea that it may be true it can bring an immense sense of freedom, possibility and flow to our minds and bodies.
Published 04/02/24
Why do we find it hard to break old patterns of thinking and behaviour that we know don’t serve us? Why is it we can feel stuck, which can lead to frustration or disillusionment? In this episode, we find out how we can get unstuck and be more the us we want to be. This enables us to conceive more of what we want in life with more ease and flow.
Published 03/26/24
Why is it that when we are experiencing challenging circumstances, some days feel better than others? In this episode, we explore how to have a better state of mind more often.
Published 03/19/24
We generally pay more attention to our feelings than is helpful, which means our feelings can tend to get in the way of us being who we want to be and creating more of what we want in our lives. In this episode, we explore why we can’t trust our feelings and how we have a more reliable guidance mechanism than feelings.
Published 03/12/24
I used to wear my superhero cape with pride (metaphorically!). However, it’s exhausting. Constantly trying to be perfect to avoid judgment or rejection. In this episode, I explore how it’s OK to be human and how we can stop trying to be the superhero we think we need to be. This brings more ease and flow into our lives and bodies.
Published 03/05/24
Do you find it hard to know what you really think, want or what to do in a situation? How do you know your truth in big decisions or how do you not let the fearful thoughts hold you back from honouring your truth? In this episode, we explore how to listen to and be more connected to your truth.
Published 02/27/24
Do you find yourself putting off things you want to do? Do you think you procrastinate? What if procrastination doesn’t exist? In this episode, we explore what is really going on behind putting off the things we know we want to do and what we can do to get them done.
Published 02/20/24
Where does happiness come from? Are we looking in the wrong place for happiness? Research shows that perhaps we are. In this episode, we explore where true happiness comes from, and the more we live in that place, the more we create what we want in life.
Published 02/13/24
Fear impacted my happiness, well-being and even my fertility.  In this episode we explore the nature of fear and why we can feel the fear and do it anyway and release the fear and tension from our lives and bodies. 
Published 02/06/24
Many of my clients would say they were perfectionists and they don’t like that aspect of themselves. They can see it causes unnecessary stress. In this episode we explore what is behind perfectionism and how we can let it go and have more ease and flow in our lives and bodies.
Published 01/30/24
Whatever you are navigating in life what if you had the best coach/guide/expert within you to guide you through life with the least resistance, on a path that brings the most fulfilment? We all have this inner guidance, inner wisdom but so often it is drowned out by our busy mind. In his episode we explore how we can hear our innate wisdom more clearly, a part of us that knows we will be OK whatever happens which gives perspective and clarity in situations.
Published 01/23/24
To achieve the things we want in life, we think we need to strive for them. Apply pressure on ourselves to bring out the best of us. What if that wasn’t true? What if striving prevents us from being our best selves and creating more of what we want? In this episode, we explore what we need instead, flow, and how to live more from the place of flow.
Published 01/16/24
‘What should I do?’ is a question we ask ourselves. It presupposed we need to do something. We are addicted to taking action. There is a step before action that ensures we do take the most effective action for us and also makes our commitment to actions more effortless. That is our BEing.  In this episode, we explore what I mean by that and how it can help you create more of what you want in life with more ease and flow.
Published 01/09/24
What if we could live a life without any regrets? What if we could die complete, being content with our life and who we became? What would those things be? Who would you have become? In this week’s episode, I take you on a magical journey through a relaxing meditation to connect to your future and ensure you are on track to create a life without regret and make 2024 a significant year for you.
Published 01/02/24
One of the things that often drives us to create the things we want in life, whether it’s the relationship we want, a more inspiring career or getting pregnant, is to believe we are good enough. Our (often unconscious) avoidance of judgement and rejection holds us back from creating the life we want with more ease. It also puts tension into our bodies. In this episode, we explore how we can be more immune to judgement and rejection.
Published 12/26/23
I help clients create the family they crave, the work-life balance they want, and the success they want. Whether it is a CEO, Olympian, or wanna-be mum, one of the most common attributes of my clients is Imposter Syndrome to one degree or another. A lack of self-confidence and self-worth.  In this episode, I help you explore whether you may have Imposter Syndrome and how you can let it go!
Published 12/19/23
One of the most common questions I get asked is whether it is possible to change life-long beliefs that may be holding us back from creating what we want in our lives and having more ease and well-being. In this episode, I explain why you can change life-long beliefs and why it is easier than you think!
Published 12/12/23
We may think we know what we want to conceive in our life, but do we really? In this episode, we explore what may be stopping you from knowing what you REALLY want in life, and if you know what you want, what may be stopping you from creating it. Get in touch: www.thefertilemind.net [email protected] About the Show: I help women and couples remove psychological blocks to getting pregnant. Based on my and my wife’s 10 year fertility journey and the work of my clients I believe too...
Published 12/05/23
What has your identity got to do with being successful in making the changes you want in life or creating the baby or promotion you crave? What is your identity? Who do you say you are? In this episode, I explore why these are fundamental questions and give you a direction to look in that brings you significantly closer to success. Get in touch: www.thefertilemind.net [email protected] About the Show: I help women and couples remove psychological blocks to getting pregnant. Based on...
Published 11/28/23
How do I help people get pregnant, get the job they want, or be happier? I would say the key principle behind success is knowing you are loved for who you are. In this episode, we explore why I think self-love is the secret sauce to creating the things you want in life. Get in touch: www.thefertilemind.net [email protected] About the Show: I help women and couples remove psychological blocks to getting pregnant. Based on my and my wife’s 10 year fertility journey and the work of my...
Published 11/21/23