Any relationship is a work in progress. It’s also a choice that both people involved have to make to stay together. That means each person is responsible for their own self-development and growth, including doing the hard work. In this episode, I am joined by my husband of almost six years, and we share our very own relationship and dynamic, our history, our challenges, and so much more.  Join my on-demand webinar - Choosing you: From self abandonment to self connection - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/choosing-you-from-self-abandonment-to-self-connection-tickets-203863700817 Show notes: [1:29] Our love story [3:21] The power struggle stage [6:07] When the fights became ugly [10:57] How my husband became willing to self-reflect [13:23] Patterns still occur but not as often as before [20:03] Choosing to be a better version of you for your kids [26:06] Final thoughts  Find and follow me at: https://www.instagram.com/nytherapist/ Please help a new podcaster out by leaving a review and sharing this podcast with anyone you think can benefit from listening to The Imperfect Person podcast. Also, please subscribe so you’ll be notified when I drop a new episode.