Episodes
We are 3 weeks into our self-esteem journey. That deserves some celebration...with a hefty amount of appreciation for how far we have come. I am celebrating a year successfully traveled around the sun. Today I reflect on my top 3 lessons learned. I hope they spark some reflection of your own. If you feel inspired, please connect with me here: To read the original blog posts that inspire this podcast go here to My Spiritual Center Or…if you’re interested in reading more about the...
Published 08/11/24
How malleable are you? That is the question we play with today. How likely are you to soak up what other people say about you, or to you, and adapt yourself ? If this interests you, check out today's process for figuring out exactly how malleable you are and what to do about it. Once we have our strength and flexibility in balance, we can successfully navigate any situation and stay true to who we are at the core. In other words, we have leveled up our self-esteem! If you feel...
Published 08/02/24
Published 08/02/24
Still sticking to the popular theme of money and running it through the powerful realm of energy work, today we look at your paycheck and do a bit of EFT - Emotional Freedom Technique. For a recap on the foundations of energy work, feel free to listen to Day 18 first...or dive right into today. Are you happy with your current paycheck? Can you think of a number that would put you over the moon? That's what we're shooting for today. If you're keen to give it a try, please come along for...
Published 02/28/24
Today we return to the realm of money. Why? Because so much of our self-esteem is co-mingled with the ebb and flow of this particular type of energy. And speaking of energy, that's how we're going to tackle our money management today. Energetically. Specifically, utilizing the framework of Reiki to generate and direct that flow of energy where we want it to go, to raise our self-esteem. If you feel inspired, please connect with me here: To read the original blog posts that inspire...
Published 01/19/24
Motivational Triggers, as Brendon Burchard teaches, are a fantastic way to "trigger ourselves" instead of letting the world do it for us. (I paraphrase what he says about them). Today we turn this practice into a way to bolster our self-esteem. What better way to focus in on having the mindset to take the actions that will most help our self-esteem climb? If this interests you, please join us for today's practices! Then, stick around til the end for a bonus exercise that will launch you...
Published 01/18/24
Are you successful? Wait! Don't answer that until you've listened to the criteria. Or, actually gotten a chance to define the parameters for yourself. That's what we're doing today. Defining. Assessing. Planning our steps to the next level of success in our own eyes. If this interests you, please join in! If you feel inspired, please connect with me here: To read the original blog posts that inspire this podcast go here to My Spiritual Center Or…if you’re interested in reading more...
Published 01/17/24
Do you talk about how much you make? Today we will. And we'll look at why you make what you do. Then, if the numbers aren't adding up to satisfaction for you, we'll look at ways to make them different. If any of that interests you, please come along for Day 15! If you feel inspired, please connect with me here: To read the original blog posts that inspire this podcast go here to My Spiritual Center Or…if you’re interested in reading more about the benefits of incorporating Precision...
Published 01/16/24
Are you looking for more wealth? Two weeks ago, I was. Which led me to the subject of today's podcast. Gratitude. We'll talk about wealth from a different perspective and pause for a moment of gratitude. Just like I am going to do right here. I am grateful to you for coming on this journey with me. When we take the time to value our self enough to raise our self-esteem to the next level, that affects the overall vibration of the planet. We simply can't level up ourselves without...
Published 01/15/24
It happens. Anger is a real thing and we have plenty of opportunities to navigate it. What does it have to do with our self-esteem? Plenty. And most of it's not good. We've been taught the "rights and wrongs" of anger from a very young age. Mostly, we've been taught that the very fact that we Have anger is wrong. Then we've been taught that the way we "do" anger is wrong. Today we explore everything from our tendency to suppress anger or our natural expression of it to different ways...
Published 01/14/24
Rejection sucks. It doesn't matter if someone is letting you down lightly with an "It's not you....it's me" or blatantly laughing out loud at the amazing new idea you just proposed to your team at work. I'll say it again. Rejection sucks. But it doesn't have to. Today's series of steps is about looking rejection straight in the eye, sitting steeped in the emotions that arise and using logic to sort the real from the fiction. I'll be the first to admit, the first 4 steps are pretty...
Published 01/13/24
Self-Esteem is an inside job. Yet, sometimes on a subtle level, we let the things that happen in the great big world dictate how we feel about ourselves. Today we're going to look at this tendency and see what happens when we turn the focus back where it belongs. Inside. If that interests you, please join us for the Day 11 adventure toward enhanced self-esteem. If you feel inspired, please connect with me here: Facebook https://www.facebook.com/melinda.perkins.319/ Facebook PEC...
Published 01/12/24
Do you take life too seriously? Or is it simply a game? Well, what if life was a game? To me, you'd need some padding to play it comfortably and not get hurt. Today we look at three layers of padding that you might want to bulk-up to help you when you step out onto the field of life. These layers are: 1. Your Front Row 2. Your Spirituality 3. Your Self-Esteem If this interests you, please join us for this Day 9 set of steps to help you level-up your self-esteem If you feel...
Published 01/11/24
We make mistakes. That's life. But do we make ourselves wrong for it? Do we hold onto the feelings of guilt, shame, anger for much longer than the initial reaction? If we do, there are very good reasons we learned to do this. Mainly, these weird patterns we play on repeat come from the time in our life when we were little sponges. Well, we're not 6 anymore and it's time our mistakes got an upgrade. Today we'll look at where we sit on the continuum of letting mistakes batter our...
Published 01/10/24
Do you love drama? I'm being facetious here. I'm talking about today's subject; What do you do when life throws you a curve ball? And what does this have to do with our self-esteem. We will go through a process to figure out not only what our gut reaction is, how we feel about it and what we'd rather do instead, but also how to cultivate the space to respond in times of crisis instead of react. If this interests you, please join us for Day 8! If you feel inspired, please...
Published 01/09/24
Let's celebrate! It's more than just a fun thing to do. It's essential to your self-esteem journey. Today we'll talk about the elements that will support you in the continuation of this journey including the role of Dopamine. We'll talk about self-efficacy and how it affects your eventual performance. But most of all, we'll celebrate you and show up for an entire week to take your self-esteem to the next level! Go YOU! If you feel inspired, please connect with me here: Facebook...
Published 01/08/24
Today we tackle habits. New choices create change. If we repeat these new choices, they become a habit. Habits become part of who we are and who we are is our contribution to every situation. We're going to build on yesterday's theme of worthiness and its connection to self-esteem. Our 5-step process today centers around crafting a mantra that will support a change in how we feel about our worth until it hits the habit stage and becomes part of our improved self-esteem. Here are the...
Published 01/07/24
Worthiness. Just the word alone is heavy. We're going to see if we can lighten it up a bit by tackling an even heavier word, selfishness. Oof! Are you ready? So the steps go like this: 1. Open Your Eyes 2. Think About It 3. Do It 4. Assess It 5. Ponder It Nope, those won't make sense until you listen to Day 5. But after, they'll be a great reminder so you can repeat todays steps any time you like. I hope you join us on the journey. If you feel inspired, please connect with...
Published 01/06/24
Today is about your gut health, but not in the traditional way. In the intuitive, "gut feeling" way. We're going to get really honest about how much you actually "go with your gut" Why? Because when you are in tune with your gut, and build that relationship, you're leveling up your ability to moment-by-moment assess your self-esteem. Here are todays steps: 1. Get Quiet 2. Get Familiar 3. Get Judgemental 4. Get Across the Possibilities If any of that sounds like just what you need...
Published 01/05/24
Here's where it gets real! Well, okay, it has been real before, but today we dive in a little deeper. We're going to engage the mean voice in our head. You know the one. Yep. That one. And we're going to go toe-to-toe with it. If that excites you, or causes a bit of anxiety, or even interests you in the slightest....please join in! When I do this set of 5 simple steps, I get different results every time. But each time is just as powerful AND it's exactly what I need in the moment!...
Published 01/04/24
What is self-esteem anyway? Who cares? It's more important what self-esteem is to YOU! Today we find that definition through 4 easy steps. 1. We ask ourselves that question. What is Self-Esteem 2. We talk to Future YOU. 3. We ask Future YOU what aspect of Self-Esteem is the most important. 4. We ponder our personal definition of Self-Esteem. Yes, there are nuances to each of those questions. But if you're short on time, go ahead and get started! If you want to dive a bit deeper and...
Published 01/03/24
How's your self-esteem? What is self-esteem, exactly? If you'd like to take the next few minutes, or the next 31 days to explore these things and, along the way, bring yours to the next level, then let's get started. Today we discuss the 4 steps to get started on your Self-Esteem enhancement journey. 1. Get Out of Your Head 2. Let the WHYs Go 3. Let It Be Okay 4. Let It Sit Whenever you pick this up, whether it's the first day of the year or the second ...the first day of the month or the...
Published 01/02/24
Are you Locked and Loaded, ready for life? We've talked lots about your WHY (your passion, your mission). This time we pair it with your true form of self-expression to get that fire to the surface! When you are locked and loaded with your why and self-expression moving in unison, nothing in this ever-changing world can sway you from your path. Here's the link to Craig Harper's podcasts - the one I refer to is "The You Project" episode #1066 This episode is also available as a blog post:...
Published 11/10/23
What is your Why? It goes by a dozen different names, but basically your why is that thing...that vision...that guiding light when the whole world goes dark. In today's episode we'll look at a few attributes of your why that make it shine it's brightest plus 6 easy questions to ask (and keep asking) to dive into the very depths of your subconscious and extract your personal bit of gold! I hope you enjoy it and gain a deeper understanding of what makes you...uniquely YOU! You'll find...
Published 10/27/23
We expect pretty much everything to end up in the dump, including our most valuable asset - our human body. The key word is "expect". Our expectation that the human form will degrade, start to slip up, break down and fall out could be the reason it ends that way. And it could be the subconscious reason that we begin new healthy ways of life, only to abandon them days, weeks or months later. Today, we explore possibilities. The possibility of crafting a new expectation. One that...
Published 10/13/23