Living the Mind Map Way Shifting from Human to Humane (Part 1) with Guest Avner Madar of The Kabbalah Centre

If you're still in a narcissistic, abusive relationship, look at the secondary gains. Also know that it's very difficult to extricate yourself from a family, especially a family where you have children involved and you have financial deals enmeshed with each other. So sometimes people just cannot break free of this because it's too complicated, it's too emotionally exhausting, and it's it's too traumatic to split up the family. And so one thing that you could do is psycho educate yourself so...

Narcissists like to leave you with their bag of laundry. There's so good at masking up and creating a false positive sense of self that by the time you wake up and leave gone, if you ever do wake up, they will have poisoned everyone around you to think that you're sick and crazy and bad for leaving such a wonderful person because they appear wonderful on the outside and mask their evil and disconnected ways, they make you appear Like you should be ashamed of yourself and guilty for leaving...

take a moment to self-reflect and self-correct and see what you're getting out of being connected and choosing narcissists into your life. Often times when you tell the real truth about it, you will find that you're getting some secondary gain, like being with a good looking or rich person or a famous person. On the surface, it might be fun to be with somebody who appears as though they are a winner and special and by attaching to a special person, you might feel more special and need to...

Being the golden child is not all that golden. There's a huge price to pay. And the payment is in the form of serving and doing and pleasing the king and the queen, a.k.a. usually mother and father. If you comply with their wishes, needs, desires and agendas, you will be deemed the golden child. If not, you might get kicked to the curb and become the scapegoat. If you're lucky, you escape. If you're not so lucky, you're trapped in this system for way too long. And when you are trapped in a...

Signs and symptoms of narcissistic abuse. The most obvious sign is that you feel absolutely drained psychologically, emotionally, physically, even financially drained. The key to helping you to stop the drainage is to heal thyself. If you want to make sure that you don't pass the psycho virus to the next generation, heal thyself so that you can give your next generation a better blueprint. Narcissistic abuse abounds and people who are people pleasers and more likely than others to get...

Word and say narcissists use all kinds of manipulative tactics to pull power and control over you. It's important to understand your vulnerabilities so that you don't give them opportunities to get insights into your psyche and steal your sense of power and control over yourself. Manipulative tactics can involve overt manipulation as an example, giving you something in exchange for you doing something for them. This works only when they know that you are vulnerable and needy of that...

When divorcing a narcissist, be prepared to take off your rose colored glasses and assume the worst. It's not going to be pretty. Expect to be demeaned, devalued, destroyed, discarded. Expect that there will be plenty of flying monkeys that they will enlist to, um. To weaponize against you. Please realize that you are part of this system gone wrong. If you've been groomed to people, please. If you've been groomed to think that the world is all good, you have some work to do when divorcing a...

Christiana Davisson, their karma therapist, will be leading a webinar titled Healing from Narcissistic Abuse to Address Toxic Love versus Healthy Love and Help you out of the double dungeon of darkness, of Despair. Okay. We will be addressing topics related to mother infant disconnect and the effects it has on the psyche and the repetitive pattern it creates in relationships. Once you begin to heal, you will be able to have a new way of seeing and being an opening yourself up to healthy...

So if you're trapped in a narcissistic relationship, there is a way out. Before you get out, you have to go back in to your past and look at the blueprint of how you were set up to be in such a trapped situation. Childhood is a hostage situation. Our parents set up the blueprint for future relationships. If our parents locked up empathy, if they verbally, physically, emotionally abused and neglected us, if they over idealized us in order to manipulate and control our behavior, we were set...

In order to foolproof yourself against narcissists, we have to see the blueprint that you were groomed to take on. This blueprint is exactly what's set you up to be the fool. Because narcissists like you to be the fool and foolish and easily malleable and controllable so that they can be the cause of your life and not you. So once you can get behind this blueprint and psycho, educate yourself on what happened and who done it and why you came to believe what you believe and how you came to be...

Webinar Group Support Narcissistic Abuse Blueprint. Gone will be the call force Gaslighting Human Disconnect. Mother Instant Disconnect Father Instant Disconnect. Global Disconnect. Let's see at the effect. Narcissistic wounds. Apathy. Lack of Empathy. Let me think what other words that I use or enlighten Witness. Enlighten me. Okay. Okay. So. Okay, so I'll just say please join us for our webinar led by Christiana Davidson, Therapist, September three, ten and 17, three Sundays in a row from 9...

What does it take to heal from narcissistic abuse? Number one, a plan. Number two, sometimes a breakdown. Number three, the willingness to be vulnerable. Number four, the will. The willingness to tell the truth. And an open mind to connect the dots. A recognition that sometimes it's easier to backtrack into the old rather than take a leap into the new. And having courage to do that. Yes. On September 3rd, 10th and 17th, Christiana Davidson, therapist, will be conducting a webinar for those...

Authenticity and Intuition: Your Pathway to Self Protection With Amy Redford Director/Producer

Negative core beliefs or beliefs that you buy into because you've been programed that way by your family of origin and multi-generational. So the fact and in fact, your view of yourself in the world when these negative core beliefs shadow over your perception, it's easy to disconnect from the other person trying to connect to you because the communication is derailed by these lies and misperceptions. Once you start shining the truth light on these negative core beliefs that are based on...

So Mother's Day is not always happy when you have a narcissist for mother. Narcissistic mothers take more than they give, and it's never good enough for them. So be wary of pleasing them.An impossibility, at best. The definition of a mother is someone who puts her feelings as secondary to the feelings of her own child. A non narcissistic mother possesses empathy. A narcissistic mother is apathetic It is really the wounded apathy that kills the mind, body and soul, because it is the most...

when both parents are wounding in the same way It's double sin It's synergistically damaging to the psyche. Children who cannot turn to at least one parent are finding themselves to be in the double dungeon of darkness where they are lost, alone and scared.When you have no one to empathize with you and show you unconditional love. Your world becomes darker and you project on to others that you project on to others the same, How would I say that? The same philosophy that human beings are all...

Even if you have narcissistic traits, which most of us do, we want to play a better game of life. Period We are wired to connect And therefore, how we come across to other people will either be a connect or disconnect when we are wounded in childhood by parents who don't care and we pick up the traits of not caring. We can copycat them and become like them. When that happens, we become disconnected from ourselves and we exhibit disconnecting traits. We can all do better. Even if you are not...

THE GREAT ESCAPE...From Narcissists With Christiana Davidson, Psychotherapist

It's important to the Social environment is just as important as your physical environment, if not more. Why? Because the man with the sex or mental health attacks are of physical health. Being that the mind and the body are interconnected. When looking at who to purge and how to purge, we've got to consider who they are in our lives. Certainly there are people in our lives that we depend on for a paycheck and for family structure. So we have to be careful with that and make sure the timing...

Too many assumptions are based on lies that directly connect with childhood wounds that lead to a the lens of perception. Perceiving yourself as the world and the world is distorted. When we've had trauma around verbal, sexual, physical abuse, etc. we assume that when things go awry, it's because the pain is happening again. When we project our assumptions onto our significant others, we disconnect from them by assuming that they're that they are treating us with disdain. This assumption...

Guilt is the first step in an internal process where the person knows that something is off. They did something wrong. When guilt is used as a pathway to put yourself into the other person's shoes that you've turned on in the right direction. Once, when guilt just remains a a bunch of crocodile tears, it becomes a form of gaslighting where others expect that they should feel bad for the person that did something wrong. And without any effort to make repairs with the wronged person, guilt...

People wonder why narcissists lie. The simple answer is that they lie to cover up the guilt, the underlying guilt and shame that was created by critical parents who may have overvalued and then devalue their their child because it was unsafe for them to tell the truth. They resort to lying, which then makes other people feel gaslit. Well, that's another word you can include gaslighting.It's a vicious cycle, because the more the the other person is confused and gaslit, the more they will try...

What is Narcissistic Abuse from a Mind Map Perspective?

In order to deal with healing from narcissistic abuse, it’s imperative that you work with an expert in the field and that you have a plan. Talk therapy is just not good enough. The gold standard therapy is cognitive behavioral therapy, which is a wonderful tool, however, it’s not always enough. It doesn’t go to the cause of the cognitions and how they were formed, and it doesn’t address the emotional injuries that they inflict on the person, who is left thinking and feeling like they are not...