In this episode, we explore the concept of self-sabotage, analyzing how our internal experiences, like shame and fear, often reflect our unconscious desires. We’ll look at how these patterns can be traced back to our early years, especially from infancy to about seven years old—a critical period when we were learning to navigate our surroundings. I emphasize that self-sabotage isn't inherently bad; it’s a survival mechanism we’ve developed. I explain that transforming these patterns is...

In this episode join me as I speak with Andy McCune, founder of Cosmos, a Pinterest alternative designed for creatives with great taste. Together, we delve into the depths of creativity, unleashing ourselves to be unreasonably passionate and in love with life, the artistic process, and the relationship between heartbreak and creation. We kick off the discussion by exploring our shared belief in the power of relentless passion and the essential role of authenticity in our work. We also reflect...

In this episode, I dive into the essential elements of personal evolution, focusing on the transformative power of self-confidence, transparency, and owning your truth. I kick things off with a discussion on how self-development and improvement fuel our energy and confidence. I share personal anecdotes from my experiences with surfing and tennis to illustrate the journey of understanding one's current state and desired goals. We then delve into the desire for improvement, exploring how...

In this episode, I delve into two compelling themes: the pursuit of perfection and the commitment to never being defensive or offended. I discuss how we can view perfection not as a final destination but as a continual journey that strives for balance and coherence. I talk about the importance of not setting unrealistic expectations and embracing imperfections as they present growth opportunities.     I introduce the concept of the "Four Horsemen of the Personal Apocalypse" — assumption,...

In today’s episode, I'm joined by Frank Bach, a designer at Instagram and a member of the band Monk. We delve into the intriguing crossroads of art and commerce, the significance of parental support in cultivating self-confidence, and the pivotal role of intuition in decision-making. Our conversation begins with Frank's role at Instagram, where he's dedicated to enhancing the experience for creators on the platform. We then explore his insights on branding, its transition from corporate...

In this episode, I delve into my experience with self-hate and outline 3 of the most important factors in my experience of transcending it. We will dive into concept of resonance and its profound impact on our actions and perspectives. I share my personal journey of self-realization, beginning at the age of 18, where I encountered fear, insecurity, and the struggle of self-perception. I explore the pursuit of perfection as a response to self-hatred and the realization that perfection isn't...

In this thought-provoking episode, I delve into the mystical concept of the 'dark night of the soul,' a term coined by the Spanish mystic St. John of the Cross, and what it might take to become “un-dark-night-of-the-soulable”. I share my personal journey of self-discovery that began in my late teens, marked by a struggle with self-hatred and a deep yearning for transformation. Over a decade, my journey unfolded as a quest for understanding and tapping into the divine love that lies at the...

In today's episode, I speak about the one major thing that gets in the way of people's capacity to engage in conflict skillfully, efficiently, and effectively. I'm also going to give you one framework to be able to understand yourself on a deeper level so that you can go into conflict understanding what it is that you actually want. I discuss how 70 percent of couples supposedly have the same conflict over and over, how to find a fulfilling solution to the conflict, understand your...

In today's episode, I'm joined by speaker and writer Cameron Rosin. Cam is a registered nurse with a deep knowledge of plant medicine, endocannabinoids, and the nervous system. Cam discusses his creative process, what freedom means to him, how he creates more of it in his life, and what he's learned about focus and instinct. He also explores the differentiation between instinct and intuition, and trusting his intuition in the process of becoming a father. We also dive into the relationship...

In today's episode, I'm joined by the global authority on clinical hypnonis, Dr. David Spiegel. Dr. Spiegel is the Director of the Center for Integrative Medicine at Stanford University School of Medicine, and co-founder of Reverie, an app that teaches personalized hypnotherapy and self hypnosis. Dr. Spiegel discusses the stigma of hypnonsis, the resistance faced from the medical community towards hypnosis, creating a paradigm shift in medicine, how hypnosis works on a neurological level,...

In today's episode, I demystify the process of trauma healing, and simplify the process unconscious and personal transformation. I discuss how you can own the truth of what you want to create in your life, how healing trauma for the sake of healing trauma is less likely to fulfill you, and how to go deeper inward and understand yourself, find wounds and transform them. My hope is that you walk away from this episode with a deep understanding of the emotional brain, the ability to identify and...

If you're a person who wants fulfillment, if you want satisfaction, if you want a sense of completion, yet never complete fulfillment in your life, if you want to create, if you want empowerment, if you want to empower others, if you want to inspire the people around you and breathe life into the spaces that you walk into, then this episode is for you. In today's episode, I explore how to be yourself. We explore how fragmentation happens, my story of fragmentation, and how to create...

In this episode, my guest is my business partner and girlfriend, Emily Sudlow and this might be the most important relationship podcast you’ve ever heard. Emily and I explore how to know if you are settling in a relationship, see others’ traits as scarce resources, the honeymoon phase, and finding validation from relationships. We also discuss how to know if you really love someone, how to know if you love your life, becoming exactly who you want to be, how a relationship can accelerate...

In today's episode, I explore what loving self-awareness is and offer you a framework for implementing it in your life. I also discuss the unconscious mind, neuroplasticity, the conditions that change needs, how to cultivate deeper self-understanding, the energetic frequency associated with actions and thoughts, and transforming your dislikes into likes. This conversation is the second part of a two-part series and offers an in-depth perspective on how to go from shameful self-awareness and...

In today's episode, I explore what shameful self-awareness is and where it comes from, and more importantly how you can begin turn it into loving self-awareness. We dive into shameful self-awareness and how it shows up as immense self-criticism, self-hatred, what happens to your nervous system with shame, loneliness, and being rejected. This conversation is the first part of a two-part series. In Part 2, we explore loving self-awareness and how make a different choice about who you want to...

In this episode, my guest is Pea The Feary, an artist and spiritualist. Pea specializes in the energetics of reality creation and uses the principles of reality creation to support creatives in calling in careers they desire and love. Pea describes using timeline jumping to get from where you are to where you want to be, unveiling yourself, and revealing yourself through choice, life as an act of creativity, and the concept of neutrality. This conversation offers an immensely beautiful deep...

In this episode, my guest is Brian Yang, @awakeningwithbrian, a transformational coach. Brian helps people heal the deepest emotional wounds that block them from fulfilling relationships, using SIBS, which is the synergy of somatic work, inner child work, and breathwork. Brian describes his childhood and capacity for emotional intelligence, the opportunity for deeper intimacy in relationships, anxious and avoidant attachment, and unconscious attachment patterns. He also discusses growth in...

In this episode, I describe two frameworks to use in any relationship and how to create a secure relationship to be your most expansive self. Framework one is a commitment to closeness and framework two is co-creation. I explain two different types of attachment in relationships which I created - lifeless and expansive - how I used to be a person with avoidant tendencies, the gap between where you are and where you want to be, and getting clear on the life you desire. I discuss common...

In this episode, my guest is Maike Gabriela, Human Design reader, and deconditioning expert. Maike’s mission is to support people in finding their way back to themselves and their purpose. Maike describes the science of the aura and the cellular activation process of Human Design, as well as energetics and alignment. Maike tells us about Human Design’s intention to communicate to your mind and body down to a cellular level. She also discusses how you can contribute to the expansion of...

In today’s episode, we begin to understand what you actually want in the life and how to get it. We dive into the importance of knowing what you want, being specific, what gets in the way of what you desire in life, strategies to access internal experience, trusting your taste and preferences, the vision for the rest of your life, the opportunity to see yourself as an artist, getting clear on the energy you want to exchange, owning what you like, and becoming an energetic asset. If you want...

In today’s episode, I teach you about "The 6 Principles of Your Unconscious". These principles, informed by Neuro-Linguistic Programming, are the key to understanding your unconscious to transform your internal and external realities. The 6 Principles: Your unconscious stores and organizes memoryYour unconscious takes everything personallyYour unconscious works on the principle of least effortYour unconscious does not process the negativesGoal setter vs. go-getterWhat is safe to your...

In today’s episode, I speak with Raed Khawaja, co-founder of LA based meditation studio and app, Open. In our conversation, we explore the distinction between a healthy and unhealthy expression of ego, disconnection and self-absorption as signs of an unhealthy ego, knowing your purpose and finding meaning in work, and recognizing when you are leaning too far into obsession. We also discussed being in your head vs. your body and the challenges and sacrifices that come with building something...

In today’s episode, I speak with the incredible and intuitive entrepreneur, Suzy Batiz, Founder of Poo-Pourri, Supernatural and creator of a $500+ million empire.  In our conversation, we discuss topics such as: the balance of the universe, the duality between good and evil, creative potential, using your business as a vehicle for your own transcendence and transformation, and stuck energy in the body. We also explored owning the depths of darkness within you, wealth as an internal state,...

In today’s episode I speak with my girlfriend Emily on internal fulfillment, authenticity in life and in relationships and becoming who you want to be. We discuss my initial dislike of authenticity, how authenticity can often create a fear of being inauthentic, using intensity and directness as a tool for getting what you want, living in alignment and being unaffected by external validation. We also speak about consciously choosing how you show up in the world, taking control of your energy...