Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any hormone test kit.  “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.” Today, my guest who's self-described as a very masculine man, shares his sexual secret. His secret is that he likes to get pegged. Getting pegged is when your girlfriend puts on a strap-on dildo, and f***ks you anally.  Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And...

Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any hormone test kit.  “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.” Today, my guest shares his big turn on....being fisted. Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame. How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud.  So, I created a series of interviews...

Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any hormone test kit.  “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.” Today, my guest, who's gay, shares his experience with being a bottom during sex (ie taking vs giving). And he shares some of the shame associated with it. Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame. How do you...

Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any hormone test kit.  “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.” Today, my guest shares his experience with premature ejaculation and how he lost his virginity. Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame. How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud.  ...

Go to https://trylgc.com/intimate and use the Coupon Code HeathyYou2020 for 20% off any hormone test kit.  “Something I don’t want you to know about me is _________.” Today, my guest shares an embarrassing and somewhat traumatizing experience with his mother. Everyone has a sexual secret. Maybe it’s a fantasy, or an experience they’ve had or want to have. And often, these sexual secrets are a huge source of shame. How do you heal sexual shame? The first step is speaking it out loud.  So,...

The Secret Sexual Share is a series of episodes where men share their sexual secrets to remove guilt and shame and begin/continue their growth in sexual confidence. Today is where I share a fantasy of mine that I held a lot of shame around, and explain what this series is all about in more detail.

The topics Susan and I covered run the gamut, from thrusting techniques, freezies, how heart disease starts in the penis, and the life changing magic of lickin’ and dickin’. Other points we’ve chatted about are: Thrusting techniques that create better, longer, and more intense stimulation for women. (13:29) Shrinking penises and loosening vaginas, (20:08) The shame surrounding penis size and penis enlargement. (32:08) and a (w)hole lot more....

Back on the show as guest is Dana Pharant. Dana is a dominatrix, master healer and life strategist who helps people, specifically women, to tap into their inner dominatrix.   Dana has a new book out and we came to talk about it on this episode. We had an amazing and honest conversation where we discussed consent, negotiation, counterintuitive thoughts on what it means to be a dominatrix, and how to be a dominatrix in business.   Some of the talking points we delved into include:   The...

I took a few months away from the podcast to really focus and curate the Noble Lover, the men's program that I offer. But today, I'm back for a one-off episode where I caught up with Danielle Laura. Danielle and I connected on Facebook and had a few good chats that led us to realize how similar our work and values are.   Danielle is a Personal Development and Leadership Coach, Healer, and Spiritual Mentor for high-achieving, soul-driven women. This path allows her to help other women,...

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I am particularly knowledgeable when it comes to orgasm for men. I even provide coaching on the subject. For women though – despite all my experience, training and study, I have an inherent limitation: I don't have a vagina.   I want to make sure that The Intimate Lifestyle runs the gamut, so I invited an expert who can explain female orgasm, not just for you, but also for me.   This episode's guest is Natasha Salaash. She is a certified Bodysex Instructor, Orgasm Coach, and Sex and...

Authenticity and honesty are concepts that have been iterated time and again in the show and from the guests as one of the key components of successful relationships and meaningful life.   This time around, we have the main proponent of radical honesty to speak about what he’s been advocating and teaching for the last 25 years.   Brad Blanton is a psychotherapist, author, workshop leader, speaker, and the founder of Radical Honesty Enterprises. His team conducts more than a hundred...

Decoding other people’s intentions isn’t always the easiest task. Plus, there always seems to be a disconnect when it comes to men and women understanding each other's needs. The disconnect becomes apparent when individuals are in a relationship and their deficiencies in providing what the other needs become the root of disagreements.   The Intimate Lifestyle invited this week’s guest, John Wineland, to shed some light on this matter. John is an LA-based men's group facilitator, author,...

Now, when I first saw a podcast interview that today’s guest had been a part of entitled ‘Fucking a Man’s Heart Open’, I automatically wondered what it meant.   We have EJ Love, the Love Priestess on today’s show to share her knowledge as a love, relationship, and sex coach. She helps her clients figure out their relationships and lives by focusing on self-love, communication, soul connection, and spiritual rituals.   Before we go directly to this insightful episode, here’s an exclusive...

Victims of rape and sexual assault grow up with the event haunting them later in their adult lives. The trauma usually manifests in their relationship and their attitude towards sexuality.   Getting out of sexual trauma is difficult: “One in three will commit suicide, one in three will go mad, and one in three will wake up and heal the world."   These are the words of Erika Briones. This is how she describes the possible outcomes of someone who’s gone through the horrible experience of...

Women complain that it's always the creeps and arrogant jerks who approach them. Good men, on the other hand, complain that women always choose these jerks over them. There's an apparent disconnect in this equation that needs to be addressed, and today's podcast guest might be the key to bridge that gap.   Diana Mandell is a psychotherapist, working as a relationship coach for the last 6 years. She helps men, women, and couples find and maintain healthy and sustainable relationships. Diana...

On the heels of the scandals and the #MeToo movement that made it to the news, influential and powerful women all around the world are raising awareness on this malaise. They are determined to end all the injustices experienced by women in any industry, all across the world.   This week’s guest is a powerful and influential woman. Victoria Smith has been one of the show's guests a few weeks ago and she's back to get vulnerable and explore a relevant and controversial topic. Victoria, a.k.a....

This week’s guest is an expert that we’ve previously had in the show. His name – Phil Mistlberger. Phil is a transpersonal therapist for more than 30 years. His workshops on personal growth, shadow work, and depth psychology were a treasure trove of knowledge for me. I want to share the lessons I’ve acquired through his guidance to the Intimate Lifestyle listeners and so I’ve brought him back to the show.   Phil joins us to share his insights and expertise on a subject that people usually...

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When you think of sex parties, you might picture one of those rowdy college parties with overflowing alcohol and drugs. Where people are having intoxicated sex and wakes up the next day without any memory of what happened last night.   Today's guest hosts sex parties. The parties that Kim/Cleopatra calls 'play parties' is the complete opposite of the party that was described earlier though. It is so classy, it starts with conversations over wine and cheese, posh accents are optional. I...

Before we go straight to our conversation, I would like to remind everyone that Adam and Eve are offering FREE SHIPPING plus 50% OFF to the Intimate Lifestyle listeners. Use the exclusive coupon code SEXTALKS at checkout when you shop at adamandeve.com!   Now, get ready because this episode is about to get heavy. This conversation is so mind-blowing that I found myself at a loss for words at some points. A treasure trove of information and insights on the human psychology and sexuality...

Before we get to the heart of the episode... Adam and Eve are offering 50% DISCOUNT and FREE SHIPPING to the Intimate Lifestyle listeners. Go to adamandeve.com and use the coupon code SEXTALKS when you check out to take advantage of this offer.   If you’ve been following the Intimate Lifestyle for some time now, you might recall an episode I’ve had with transwoman, Rianna James, where we talked about the changes she went through and society's reception to her transition. Joining me on this...

Sheleana Aiyana is no virgin to the Intimate Lifestyle. She has already been a podcast guest roughly two years ago and we talked about holding space. Now, we have her back in a crazy conversation that scratches the surface of what she does through Rising Woman.   Sheleana created Rising Woman as a platform for women to share experiences and feelings within the safe space of the sisterhood. Sheleana, together with her partners, Ben and Heather, offer coaching and workshops to help women sort...

  Herpes is a condition transmitted via skin-to-skin contact. It affects mucosal surfaces like the mouth and around the g******s, and skin in other parts of the body. For most people, however, it is viewed as nothing but a sexually transmitted infection brought about by unprotected sex and promiscuity – and this got to change.   To help us veer away from this stigma and understand the condition more, I invited Laureen Herve Dupenher to the podcast. Laureen has herpes and she unpacks the...

Bryan Stacy is back on the show. For those who did not catch my first interview with him, it is available here.  In that episode, we talked about Biem, an app Bryan co-founded with the goal of better sexual health, safer sex, and sex-positivity.   This time around, Bryan and I will talk about his testicle – yes, singular. You see, he had testicular cancer and had one of his testicles removed – which is why we're using the singular form of the noun. Bryan will recount the events leading to...