The theme of the festival this year is ‘Sexual Utopia: Here, Now and Beyond’. This year we invite you to  imagine and co-create with us, a utopia made out of your most pleasurable fantasies. We invite you to imagine the desires that make you feel safe, happy, and free. In this panel, some of the question we set to answer were; what are the moments of sexual utopia that exist in the here and now? are they opposite to cis-hetero patriarchy framings of love, sex, pleasure and intimacy? And What...

In today’s episode, I get to chat with my life partner Majic and we discuss digital intimacy from the perspective of my relationship with my romantic partners. We discuss how we met online and conducted a relationship entirely online for over 3 years. We give tips and tricks on how to navigate online relationships touching on communication, sex and an array of other things. If you are navigating or looking to navigate a digital relationship as we’ve seen become prevalent during the...

IIn this episode of The Spread, Tapiwa a sex educator and rope tying generalist and myself get to answer all your question on sexuality. Some of the topics we are able to cover today are kink and consent, sex work, how to be a good LGBTQ+ ally, the different components of aromantisism .. One of the things I love about a LIVE audience is the fact that we get to understand the different things you all are dealing with and lend out a helping hand where possible. Our listeners are so smart and so...

In this episode of The Spread, we talk to two members of our audience as they share how their coming out stories shaped their lives. I am joined by Kendi, Eric and the lovely Tapiwa who came in from South Africa. Some of the topics we cover are polyamory, as the curiosity around this topic grows, homophobia in the work place what it’s like living in a homophobic Kenyan home. Coming out allows many people to experience a more authentic version of themselves and may sometimes be done in order...

On this episode we’ll be joined by Dr. Carolyne Chakua. She is a psychotherapist, lecturer, intentional parenting coach and author of the book, “Parenting With Your Heart in Mind” We have previously sat down with King Noire & Jasmine discussing the ways in which they teach their children consent (episode 42) In this episode we speak with Dr. Carol on the importance of parents working on their traumas and the various programs she facilitates. B L O G...

On this episode we’ll be joined by Jules from Over 25 and Daniella from Shakti studios. In this episode we’ll be discussing all kinds of relationship breakups from work partnerships to romantic relationships to friendships. Everything in this episode is completely relatable so I urge you to stick around till the very end. Grab a cup of tea or a glass of wine and join us.  It's a vibe!! Don’t forget to follow us on all our social media platforms and subscribe to us wherever you get your...

On this episode we’ll be joined by the brilliant Dr. Claire Kinuthia aka @theycallmedaktari Dr. Claire is a Specialist Obstetrician/ Gynecologist with several years experience in women's and reproductive health care service provision in Kenya. She is passionate about projects focused on facilitating access to quality healthcare, improved quality of life and access to basic human rights for all. On this episode we will be talking about vagina, pussy, punany, front-hole openings or uke wa...

In today’s podcast we visit the wonderful Xerlina! You may know her from the content I have created on my IG about the Dom/sub dynamic with Jetsetting Jasmine and King noire. If you haven’t seen it, please go to our IG we are @thespreadpod across the board. Xerlina has for a while been the a service sub for the power couple and I haven’t actually had an opportunity to have a conversation with her until this moment. Now, this conversation isn’t about her subbing.. it’s about her sexuality. She...

The conversations on polyamory are far from over. This week we have Tiff Mugo, co-founder of Hollaa Africa and host of the podcast basically life once again grace us with her presence here on the spread! Tiff and I discuss the different elements on how we deal with our versions of polyamory. Please be sure to share your thoughts with me when you get a chance, I would love to hear from you. You can email us on [email protected] or you can slide into the DM on our social media pages....

In today’s podcast episode I sit with 2 of my partners on what feels like a triad date as we get to know each other better with an online game of 21 questions. We learn so much from one another here and candidly discuss our most intimate moments both together and apart. It was lovely re-listening to this podcast and falling in love with the way my partners love when we are in close proximity. I’ll leave it up to you to decipher as you please, but please hit me up on IG with your thoughts or...

In today’s podcast episode I sit with a group of brilliant young minds one of which is my boo and we delve into conversations around girls on girl sex and the safety around it. One question hat has been weighing on my mind is ‘What do you consider sex’ What do you consider sex? Have you ever asked yourself this question? We talk about same sex safety, different methods of barriers and protection and so much more. Stick around, it’s a joy ride. ---------- A L L C O N T E N...

In this episode; we talk to sex workers and get their take on experiences during this quarantine period. How has their work been affected? In what ways are they transitioning to this new ‘normal’ and if adapting to more digital content is the way forward for sex work. Including some tips and tricks on how to succeed in the online world of creating ethical content and consumers. Sex in quarantine was moderated by Majic Dyke; Majic is a non binary, Kenyan drag king performer. He currently...

Remember last week I mentioned that we would continue the conversations about cancel culture? and how difficult people in the sex industry already have it; today we are joined by the ever so lovely Kali Sudra who shares with us some very intimate stories of her life as a porn star, educator, and activist and what it’s like honing a skill in an industry that has no intentions of empowering sex worker people of colour. ---------- A L L C O N T E N...

In this episode we discuss the desire to critique and attack a person or community on social media platforms and how it has grown in prominence today. Are there any repercussions for this one sided culture? Can we verify the facts? How do we hold people accountable? Njeri, Samira and Silas sit and discuss all the different aspects of cancel culture so eloquently and I do believe that this should be a continuous conversation. ---------- A L L C O N T E N...

Even though sexual violence is predominantly targeted at women, there are a lot of stories that go untold where the victims to this heinous crimes are men. And because of the patterns created by the patriarchy, a lot of men would rather die with this secret causing them a lot of shame which can then lead to a myriad of mental health issues. We are joined today by Onyango Otieno AKA Rix the poet as he discussed his rape and what the culmination of his upbringing has taught him and how he is...

Today’s topic is one that will hit home with some very hard truths. I am so grateful for everyone who chose to take part in this panel discussion. Now despite religion in its current state having been hijacked, there is an emerging movement towards inclusivity. We unpack the taboo of sex and sexual pleasure in the backdrop of conservatism and religion. Let’s meet the panellists: Tiffany Kagure Mugo is the intoxicatingly scary gatekeeper of HOLAAfrica, a Pan African queer womanist digital...

I am joined by the worlds finest sexperts and educators from around the world to answer your questions. Please forgive me but I feel like my microphone was the worst sounding of the groups so I apologise if the sound offends you. To start, allow me to introduce you to the panel. We have: Nana writes across genres including creative non-fiction, short stories and essays. 
She is the co-founder of Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women, an award-winning blog that focuses on African...

From myths, body shaming, bullying straight down to sex positions, this panel seeks to redefine what it means to be ‘fat’ and have a healthy, happy and fulfilling sex life. I haven’t got much else to add, this podcast episode says it all. Featuring Shazz as our moderator and Sarah and Njeri as our panelists. ---------- A L L C O N T E N T https://linktr.ee/karenkazlucas --------- P R O D U C E D B Y Karen kaz Lucas --------- B U S I N E S S I N Q U I R I E S For business...

COVID 19 has birthed, unearthed, and aggravated social and mental health issues at an unprecedented level. We seek to discuss the impact ‘lockdown’ and its ripple effects have had on us. Hello everyone, welcome to the Spread podcast, here we discuss all things sexuality with no judgement. I am your host Kaz and this is The Spread `fest 2020 series. Our first episode of this series is; Mental health and lockdown with:- Kevin, Jasmine, Maggie and Onyango. ---------- A L L C O N T E N...

On todays podcast episode we are jumping into more queer conversations with Njeri and Akani a beautiful queer couple currently spending their quarantine days in Nairobi. We learn a little about the families that raised them and what being queer, trans and coming out means to both of them. This episode is full of laughs, love and a lot of introspection. Please be sure to keep your ears and eyes to our social media pages to learn more about the date for our podcast listening...

Tapiwa is back on the podcast!! I figured you enjoyed our content from the last time we were on here, so I decided it would be nice to touch on a few more intimate conversations. Like anal! Tapiwa is very comfortable with his sexuality and open to speaking about all things sex in all their different aspects. So a couple of weeks ago Tapiwa got on our IG LIVE with me to discuss all things anal! Everything from rim jobs, preparing for penetration, douching, cleanliness and safety. I have...

This is a crossover podcast episode with Pro Hoe podcast! Hello Spreaders and welcome to the Spread! How’s everyone hanging on this millionth day of quarantine? I hope you are staying home! Penda started ‘Pro Hoe’ after her mom gave her her first vibrator for Christmas which sparked a conversation on the lack of sexual dialogue in Black communities. She is hyper-focused on the politics of feeling good and the ways women, particularly women of colour can use sex and taboo as positive forces...

I do hope everyone is doing well and is staying home. These are some really hard and trying times for many of us. But the year broke. That’s how it feels, broken and it hasn’t been easy for many people myself included. My mental health has been fluctuating and finding my balance has been a walk on a high rope. So this week I decided to create a new normal. This is how I see it; I’m a creator. I can create my own rules and regulations and in this instance, schedule. Tapiwa is a magnificent...

In this weeks episode we are joined once again by a bunch of some of the fiercest African feminists that I have ever met from different parts of the continent and beyond. In this podcast we learn about; The difference between calling it masturbation and sex, How to enjoy sexual pleasure post child birth, Navigating poly relationships ethically, sex work he patriarchy, queer relationships ..and so much more more.. AdventuresLive was a sex positive festival I attended in Accra in `December of...