If you've ever wondered why your partner or date seems to withdraw after you've got on so well, this might be why. In this podcast I talk about how the fear of being dependent on people can lead to a fear of commitment, ghosting,  an avoidance of intimacy, and possibly a reliance on substances. This podcast will help you to understand what's happening with avoidance, so that you can better protect yourselves and each other. If you want help with regaining your confidence, believing you are loveable, and finding loving connection: Join my mailing list hereCalling in 'The One' 8 week workshop For more support: Click here for how I can help you Click here for more information Contact: [email protected] Citations Carl Jung Stan Tatkin Interview - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2d_wA5SfwyE Stan Tatkin -  ‘Wired For Love’ Amir Levine & Rachel SF Heller - 'Attached:The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-and Keep-Love' Here are another couple of podcasts you might like:   Crack Your History CodeThe Effect Of Your Upbringing On Your Comfort EatingIf you like this podcast, please share it or leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Even better; support the show! Support the show (https://pod.fan/underground-confidence-comfort-eating-reco)